New Relationship, Shes a virgin Please Help

[DjPiZdEtZ]

Ight check this out, Im datin this girl, shes a virgin. I doubt any guy has turned her on. This is the first virgin i dated, usually i meet chicks date them jump in the sack and whoa were done. But i actually need to turn this girl on. Apparently she hasnt been rreally turned on before. I need some tips and or tricks to get her really goin. I tried askin her what she likes but from what i understand, she has no clue. Please Help


Thanks.

-D

[archer]

Well why dont u just get back into your old routine of dating then dicking some non-virgin slut? its sounds like this girl who is obviously inexperienced needs someone who just isnt in it for pleasuring himself!! i dont think you could ever turn this girl on, and i wouldnt want this girls first experience to be wif a guy who is gonna just hurt her! all she'll remember is the pain!

lol its hte first time a girl just wont let u bed her and ur already running into troubles wiht the most basic thing : turning her on!

lol good luck!! i mean it!

[DjPiZdEtZ]

Well this girl im actually instersted in. Im what you would say retired in the pimp field. As in im gona stick with this one. But I think it would be alot more fun if someone can tip me off on this virgin thing. If there are any tricks to it.


Thanks.
-D

[LittleFury]

Be gentle in anything you try. You yourself will msot likely have to make all the first moves. Cause sh'es so inexperienced, she's most likely very shy about trying something new. Try light caressing, reading her signs. MAke sure to ask if it's ok for you to move onto next level. Sometimes it mgiht take time for her to allow you to go from just kissing to more, and I don't mean minutes or hours. That might take days or even weeks. So be very petient. Start out slow and innocent and take it one thing at the time. And remember that she will most likely be scared in the way. Reasure her that you enjoy doing that to her, that she feels good and she turns you on. Reassure her a lot. Hopefully this helps. Good luck.

[demonbuttercup]

being a virgin doesn't make her an alien or anything.
im sure she's been turned on plenty of times. she just hasn't acted on it yet.
i remember make out sessions where i wasn't sure id stay that way for long LOL.
but anyways,
like littlefury said, take it slow and gentle. go at her pace, she's in control of what happens and how far things progress.
im sure she'll enjoy all the same things to did to turn other chicks on. lots of kisses, caresses, touches, boob attention lol, umm you know, the usual good stuff.
im sure she knows what turns herself on she's just too shy to say. i know i was at first. i didn't say much of anything.
the only differences will come in the pace you go at all this and when you actually have a first time.

if you haven't already, id suggest you read all the posts under
1st time pain and bleeding.
that way you can read lots of girls accounts of their first times and how better to approach it.

[monie]

I think you should concentrate less on trying to get in her pants as fast as possible, and more on actually having a relationship. You say you are behind your "pimp" days, but who knows what might happen. You definitely dont want to rush her into things. This will only cause her both mental and physical pain. If you really care about her and are really interested in a relationship with her, you will be patient and give her time. Wait until she's ready. Otherwise, you will just hurt her.

[demonbuttercup]

ditto to what monie said
i don't know how long you two have been together but if you are looking to get past your "player" days and have an actual relationship i would focus more on having something real w/ her than wondering about her first time.
when she's ready and the time comes, then focus on that.

[lilly2279]

I agree that just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she hasn't been turned on before. She just hasn't acted on it.

It can be a lot more psychological for a girl, than a guy. You could really hurt her if you have sex and then decide you don't like it with her since she is so inexperienced. Please think about that.

There are no "tricks" for getting in her pants. She scared, dude.

How long have you even been dating?

Try dating her and getting to know her. Go slow. Just making out for a while.... Then maybe removing some clothes and kissing other places, then maybe graduating to oral.. then maybe thinking about going all the way. If you really do want to stick with her and respect her, take it easy and make her feel appreciated.