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[AxE]

Hi,this is a very stupid question,but im really nervous:
I just got a girlfriend,she is my 3d one...with my other relationships,we just hugged and soft kiss...
But with the girl i have now,she want to french and go more like that..but since i havn't frenched anyone before,im a little more than a litle nervous..she wants me to make the first move,but i dont know: where,or when..and even more: im extreamly nervous and shy....can you guys help me!

AxE

[thetease13]

open your mouth ever so slightly, stick out your tongue some, brush it up against her lips and if she wants to, she will open hers and then your tongues will meet and play with each other and what not.

it's really that simple.

if you want, you can suck a little on her tongue as well.

[Tessie]

Here is my funny little story. When I was 15 I had a boyfriend named Bobby. We were together everyday. Holding hands and lightly kissing on the lips. Well one night at my door as I was going in he kissed me and stuck his tongue in my mouth. I freaked out and slapped him. I told him to never talk to me again.

Well two weeks later I start going out with Bobby's best friend Junior. Now from day one Junior frenched kissed me and we spent the next month until I moved doing just that. That is about all we did was sit and french kiss.

Poor guy must have had the worst case of blue balls with all that kissing. LOL

Anyway it is very easy to learn. Do what Tease told you to do. Oh and sucking on the tongue when you get good enough to do it is a major turn on. *

[thetease13]

yea well my first tongue experience was kinda akward.
i was just sitting there on the table feeling kinda down, and he looked down at me and moved a hair from out of my face and leaned down and kissed me. and i thought it was just gonna be like our normal kiss...just a quick peck but the next thing i knew, there was a tongue all up in my mouth. *lol*
and i had never frenched before (let alone really kissed other than a quick peck or two) so i didn't really know what to do....but i tried to get into it, just failed miserably.
i caught on quickly though. the next time went much much better and now, any quick peck is usually followed or preceeded by frenching....and i very much like it that way.

just something about frenching and it's wonderful addictiveness. lol.

[AxE]

lol,ok thanks im happy she has no more experiance than me lol
thankx again,
AxE

[disseff87]

Yeah I had a bad first experience too. hehe. The girl was kissing me goodnight and had her mouth opened more than a peck.. I guessed wrong and it was my tongue against her teeth. I felt really dumb. Then that girl kept telling me I was a horrible kisser, but now with my girlfriend now I realized my ex was a horrible kisser.

[oberon]

LOL @ Tessie! Great story.

Other than that... what thetease said.

[Rawbob]

French kissing is like any other intimate act...everyone's style is a bit different, and usually reflects what "they" like.

I'm a "soft" frech kissing kinda guy. I like our lips to be pressed gently together and tounges slowly move and intertwine.

I have had others that LOVED deep french kissing and i thought they were trying to remove my tonsils. I adapted, my partner loved it, but ultimately, i never got the recriprochol kind of french kissing i like.

Best bet, go slow, and make sure you cock your head to one side and be gentle! Thats my advise!

[El Capitan]

It's always fun to switch up between soft and sweet frenching to deep and lusty frenching. Keeps things extra interesting(not that kissing isn't interesting heh)