Best friends become lovers and it all goes wrong

[-SpUd-]

ok, so ive known this girl 4 like 2 / 3 years and were the best of friends ... and 1 day she tells me tht she wants 2 b more than tht, and im like over the moon cuz shes a really nice girl. But then like 1 week into the relationship i find out tht she'd slept wiv her ex ... i was gutted ... so bein the fool i am i still gave her 1 more chance, then another week goes by and she sends me and email sayin " we me u talk, about us ". Now she decides we shud stay friends . because she doesnt want 2 get me hurt ..... cuz well she is a nymph and well has slept round abit!!! but non of those things bother me cuz i like her !!! i dnt know wether 2 stay friends or 2 try and win her over .... i need help

[CoLdWoLf]

Dude, my ex is is like that trust me if you want to read what i went through with a girl like that read my long post in the other realtionship boerd lots of good advice is on there even though its a total diffrent situation, my personal belief is if you were with her a week and she cheated on you don't take her back, if she comes running back refuse her still, stop talking to her all together until she can reconnize you a friend again, once that happens and she really starts to like you again then consider it, but give it time man, don't try hurt yourself by tryin to hook up with her more, its just gonna be a vicious cycle if you allow her to win. good luck man