How do i win her back?

[DaFreak]

Thank u all 4 ur views!

[Update] Personally i dont think its her its definately the ex! Everytime i call to talk to her you can hear the ex in the background moaning at her so she has to end the conversation rather quickly!Im frustrated because she always kinda like picks up on points that dont need answering! Im trying to tell her to get professional help for her addiction if she isnt already and want to know if we have a possible relationship? She still texts me stuff like " How can i tell u want i want when i dont know myself " & "I have to ring u when no ones about"
I've been in touch with her dad spoken & written on many occasions and to tell you the truth he aint to happy with this situation and knows that she can do better than her ex!Although lately i havent heard from him..should i give him another call? When i contact him i always get a call from my gf giving me grief saying im hassling her dad, he doesnt want to talk to u! If he didnt why didnt he say so when i have and i've mentioned that point to him!
I know she has feelings maybe love still because we did have a good relationship and spent alot of time with each other not doing much but basically talking to each other one on one for the last 3 months on where we were heading! Just before the ex stroke she wrote me a letter explaining her feelings to me!!I know that u dont write a letter just for the fun of it!! Especially the stuff she said! Basically she was ready for change to settle down from being a rebel!I just had to chill she said
I know its her choice if she wants to get help.Im at a stage where im ready to walk away now because im starting to hear to much bad stuff about her! I always suspected how she got her money because she hasnt worked in ages but never challenged her about it! Shoplifting,drugs etc..
The latest i've heard is that shes had to resort on going on the "game"! Dunno if its true, more than likely though!
I need to open her eyes fast before she wastes her life away if i cant do that by next week i have no choice to go and leave her to her fate!!As much as it will kill me!!

positive ideas please, not negative * *

thanks

[WallyLlama]

Brutally honest: the reason you're not getting a bunch of positive ideas is there's nothing positive to say! She told you to chill, that's one level below "Kiss my ass."

Nevertheless, here's a positive suggestion: Get together with her Dad (who's also stopped talking with you!) and go together to her place with the suggestion she gather her things and move back home.

We both already know what's going to happen, don't we?

If walking away from this girl (you might want to stop calliner her your girlfriend - she's not) who keeps spitting in your face is going to "kill" you... well, get some help because she's already told you a number of times to do it. Don't walk away, run.

Wally