i dont know what to do

[ranger]

i have been seing this girl for a couple of year since high school. she has been dating her first b/f on and off. she all ways comes back to me. we get very close at times and i dont know what to do, because before i asked her if she would like to date, and she said i was putting to much pressure on her. now she says she's over her b/f and i dont know what to do. can anyone help me please.

[sweetiez]

hey! Honestly i would talk to her! u really should say you been doing this for some time now. and im guessing you care for her and just tell her how you feel and whats on your mind!Because maybe she will feel teh same way now. b.c it honestly sounds like you dont even have a clue how she feels about you! Currect? U need to get that open and know exactly that!.And since she gets close 2 u what do u mean exactly to that? do u 2 do sexuall stuff or is it just talkign and emotional or both? well i hope that has help a bit!=)

[ranger]

we mainly just get emotional and cuddle, and talk and hang out. it has never fot sexual. (i wish.) *the last time i asked her what she felt she said she didn't know what does that mean.

[Tilston]

i think mabye you should try just see how things go but mabye do somethink nice for her and make little hints that your intrested and see if you get any back. mabye take her out for a meal and chat. dont piss her off by asking her out and stuff let things flow naturally cause u might scare her off (i know read some my posts lol)

be cool and have fun!

[ranger]

i have taken her out quite a few times but i really dont get any thing back from her. should i just forget her or what

[oberon]

This has been going on for two years? And you are pressuring her??

I think you are well within your rights to want to know how things stand between the two of you. This isn't going to be very flattering, but what you described sounds, to me, like you are very convenient for her. A place to go when things get bad. That's fine if all she wants is a friend. You apparently want more, and if she's not interested that way, then you need to be free to look elsewhere.

[ranger]

does anyone else have any more good info. thanks so much

[Tilston]

seams to me you want this all sorted out now and just to be with this woman. get her out in a public place where she wont make a scence and ask her what u need to ask her.

you have feelings for her, find out if ur wasting ur time.

just go for it! :P