Help!! Help!!

[Jay81]

I am a 23 yr old male with a very healthy sexual appetite and I do my best to try to satisfy it. I have been friends with this girl since like 5th grade, and after high school we started to hook up sexually but never really dated, we had like a "freinds with benefits" thing going on. Now we are both finished with college, but we still hang out together and hook up from time to time but I think she may be developing feelings for me. for example when we have sex after she comes she holds me and says that she loves me and I just ignore it. She always likes to hang out with me while she is *an attractive girl and she should be out dating. You see, this has been going on for a while but I am alarmed now because I plan to go to Cali for grad school and she is now hinting how she wants to come and visit and I kinda wanna end this shit now before it gets out of hand. I mean she is a sweet chick and all but she is definitely not the type I would get serious with I mean me and two of my buddies have teamed up on her and had sex with her all at the same time. And she must definitely know I am not into anything serious with her because she has seen me eat out another girl in front of her and she knows I regularly hook up with internet girls on a regular basis.

My question is that I am moving into an apartment in Cali and may never be coming back how can I end this relationship so she won't get psycho and start stalking me.

[demonbuttercup]

well first off stop having sex w/ her.
the moment you realized that she might be getting too attached you should've stopped the sex then.
but woulda, coulda, shoulda,... thats old news.

i guess just tell her you've enjoyed the fun you 2 have had together but you are ready to experience "new" things in cali.
definety don't say you aren't the type of girl i'd settle down w/. apparently b/c she is used and slept w/ you and all your friends.
tell her she should experience and meet new people while you are gone. hopefully she'll find someone new and forget all about you.