Sticky Situation

[tallandskinny]

I'm a junior and are prom is april 2. I'm already going on a girls Sophop, which is like the sophomore prom. We already met each others moms. Two other girls asked me to the prom and one i had a crush on one since the begaining of school. I like the girl that going to her sophop with but i have no commitment to her. The girl i had crush on is already plan the colors but she never called me. The third girl is pretty much out of the race. I talk to the first girl pretty much on a nightly basis. I also want to have a reltionship with the girl i take on my prom. I like both girls very much and I'm not sure how to go pass the rent-a-date phase.

[JullietFIRE]

I've seen plenty of people go through the sam thing as u, as i'm a senior in high school. And of course, there is no easy answer. The nice guy in me tells me that you don't want to lead on the sophomore that you are going to the dance with. Although as i'm going through a dilema right now with a girl i've had a crush on, i can't tell u to just forget about her.

Here's my advice. Ask the girl u really liked to the prom, the one u had your crush on. but you cannot lead on the younger girl. You may not see it at the moment, but much maturing is done between sophomore and senior years in highschool and it is not right to lead girls on. but as u may be able to tell from one of my other posts "predetermined termination" i sometimes have troube with the same thing. Yeah, of course knowing what you should do is only part of the game since what you should do isn't always the best thing...sorry for not being a huge help, but relations with girls, especially in highschool gets confusing.

[tallandskinny]

thanks. I had just had my prom the 2nd or April. I went with the Jr. the prom was alright, but afterward i had promblem with the girl. We went to one of her friends house for a party and people were drinking and getting high off X. I left to get something to eat with a friend and while i was gone the girl had three drinks of hard liquor. I realized it was time to leave and she didn't want to go with me. It wasn't my kind of party. I'm starting a relationship with the So. and i thinking about having sex with the jr. on the side.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (tallandskinny @ April 08 2004,18:20)]I'm starting a relationship with the So. and i thinking about having sex with the jr. on the side.

well aren't you just a real winner or is it weiner lol

[oberon]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ April 08 2004,19:31)]well aren't you just a real winner or is it weiner lol

Oh, I think he is an Oscar Mayer ... . *lol

Just remember, the only thing you get from burning the candle at both ends is a really short wick.

[junshin]

-shakes head- people these days get around too much too freely. Not to sound over posessive or anything but if i found out my girl was "sleeping" with someone "on the side", I wouldn't be in the happiest mood I'll tell you that.

[Omega]

shakes head- people these days get around too much too freely. Not to sound over posessive or anything but if i found out my girl was "sleeping" with someone "on the side", I wouldn't be in the happiest mood I'll tell you that.

(this is my sn, other was someone elses)

[thetease13]

i'm the last person that should be talking about people sleeping with other people. i myself wouldn't do it (or i say that. there's no telling what the future will hold), but well, i'm in a relationship with someone who does.

but my point to this. i find a big difference between my guy and what tallandskinny is doing. there's a big difference to me between having having sex with the other person and playing the field so to speak. there's a big difference between having some feelings for the other person and just having sex with them. and there's a big difference between it just sorta happening and you purposely doing it to begin with.

catch my drift?

[tallandskinny]

ok before everyone in this board hangs me listen for a second. The so. is talking to other boys (namely) one of my friends. I don't see him as a threat because to me his a noodle. The girl also knows I'm talking to other girls. At the moment she the closest thing i got to a girlfriend. We talk very little in school we talk more on the phone and after school. I never even said a word about sex to her.

[thetease13]

we know you weren't talking about sex with the so.

we merely were talking about your statement of starting a relationship with the so. and having sex with the jr. on the side...which to most of us, doesn't exactly seem like the best way to start a relationship with someone.
and i'm sorry, but there's a difference between talking to other boys and having sex with other boys.