Making a move on her?

[Markey]

One of my friends introduced me to this girl who i really like. Well one night at a party we got really close. My friend says she likes me too but she just split up with her b/f, and that i should give her time.

How much time should i give? and when i do make a move how should i start? I am pretty sure she likes me but I dont want to be too sudden or scare her off cos I really like her.

Any advice about how to go about things?

Anything at al will be appreciated.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Hmm you can also pretend you didnt hear that from your friend and just go talk to her about it yourself? that could work, cause it could change her mind and what not and be like "OK lets date" or something who knows.. but just talk to the GIRL.... not so much your friend about it.


jamie

[LittleFury]

Enoguh for her to really heal. Otherwise you're running a very very high risk of being just a rebound guy. BEcome her friend first, hang out, have fun, but only as friends would. Give it time. I'm sure it's better to wait and at least have her as a friend, then have a quick fling and for her to move on and you lose her as soon as her heart is mended.

[archer]

It depends on how long they went out for, if she thinks she might have a chance again wif the ex, how they broke up, etc. i guess you have to be the judge of it. of course its going to take time...but all i know is you should allow her to pull hte moves and dont pressure her at all.

like most peopel have said, jsut be her friend for now, that's probably wat she needs most actually the move on from her ex. try to keep her mind off her ex or any relationship topics.

good luck

[Markey]

Thanks everyone.

YOur advice paid off in the end we are now dating.

Thanks again.

[sweetiez]

I would say just hang out with her a few times and see how it goes if u feel a vibe? or what you know?.See how things go for awhile.. then never know maybe something would happen.. oh and it really depends how long her and her ex were together.. depending on how she felt for hem..if she didnt like hem that much then she would be more willing into gettin into a nother relationship faster if she really cared for hem.. then give her a few months just hang out with her alot and see how it goes! just go with the flow!

[sweetiez]

hey i just read u 2 are datting now...aweosme!! happy for ya!