i wanna make her jealous

[mcpurk]

ok me and my gf of 6 montsh were really close and stuff but and ther was lots of fun untill teh last month or so and i think its cos in teh begining i had a few other chicks chaing me and lots of chick friends so she tried to keep it interesting but of late teh excitements gone and i think its cos she feels too comfortable1 ok so ehers the thing i wanna make her a lil worried or a lil jealous just so i can keep us on our toes and keep trying to make each other interested.. any iodeas on trhis how to do itr or wat i should do will help heaps

[archer]

umm...how bout not doing it at all? this whole thing is just going to hurt the both of you in the end and turn ur relationship into something rather than love..but a game or getting back at each other to make the other feel more jealous.

you shouldnt be looking at her for the blame, maybe you should go out and do things with or without her which makes you interesting, you shouldnt be out there tryin to make her feel jealous. People react differently, you might think she'll begin to come back to you but she may think u might be breaking up with her and you dont find her interesting, and this could spark something much worse than your current situation.

Keeping her on her toes is simple, surprise her, take her away to a special place, do romantic things,....in the end she is probably thinking the same thing as you are about hte situation.

Dont do it...thats my opinion anyway.

[mcpurk]

ok see teh thng is shes a sportswoman aswell so like she is busy 4 outta 5 days duriing teh w/e and susu all w/e plus yr 11 this yr and worek on top of that hwo cazn i make thinbsg interesting shes just liek oh well kurt will be ther and wants me to wait round all teh time for her

[thetease13]

speaking from a woman's point of view... trying to intentionally make her jealous of these other people will most likely not make her jealous at all.
it will probably make her look in another direction and go off and find someone that won't toy with her.

[mcpurk]

then wat do i do i cant be spountanious cos shes hardly ever free and takes us for granted what do i do?

[archer]

if she take the relationship for granted.....well mate its time to move on. No point trying to hold a relationship wen your the only one giving and she's the only one taking (wen she wants to) .

[mcpurk]

yeA thats what i was thinking but its hard liek i dunno if i shoudl wait for her ti settle into a routein with skool and stuff is there anythin at all i can try ?

[thetease13]

yea..if you feel that she's just taking advantage of you and just taking you for granted, then just move on.

[mcpurk]

yea i spose so hey look i reall;y appreciate all your help guys its making thinsg sem clearer. so can i just get an aopinion poll sorta all those hwo think its wise for me to get out say get out ythose who think sticking wuith it a lil longer say stick and any mopre advice would be fantastic

[thetease13]

all i can tell you is the decision is up to you.
if you want to stay in this, stay in this. if you want to get out of it, get out of it.
in the end it's all up to you and anything we say should not push you into making a decision you may regret later.