whacking off

[Jacky234]

i was jsut talking to my bf about masturbating(him whacking off) and i just dont understand why guys (or girls .....i dont..so i am not sure how girls really are) think/fantasize about other girls during masturbation. sure its just a fantasy, but why do guys wanna have sex wiht another girl, I dont wanna sleep with another guy?? i keep reading that it prevents ppl from cheating cuz they can live out their fantasy during masturbation...i still dont get the point..or dont like it at all, why my bf even thinks about sexual things wiht another girl... how is wanting to have sex wiht someone soo different from acting out on it..sure its differnet...but i think its almost as bad....if i am completely crazy here let me know....and then some advice how i can understand this better...or maybe someone even agrees wiht me>> some feedback would be cool though thanks

[sh_2000_ca]

it's just fun, fantasizing , cuz u control what happens and everything is going how u want it...
ur bf probably fantasizees 'bout u more than any other girl,
i know that cuz thats what i kept telling my gf. but i just didnt want to admit that i was fanasizin 'bout her
IT WOULD BE QUITE AWKWARD

[Rawbob]

Jacky: Asking a guy NOT to masturbate is almost like asking him to not eat! I'm not sure how old your boyfriend is, but i'm 42, in a 7 year relationship, and i masturbate almost daily. And my sex life is just great!

So, save yourself alot of anxiety. it's going to happen, and if he's looking at porn, or other pics or fantazing about other women, it's just to help HIM cum, not because he dosn't care for you!

You might even want to talk to him about what he masturbates about..postions, places, etc..and then include it in your lovemaking. Use his masturbation to your advantage!