Flirting

[archer]

Wat do u think is acceptable behaviour wen u are around ur g/f or b/f and a good looking/interesting girl/guy comes their way and begins a conversation? And wen do u think they are going to far?? *Also should u stop it then and there of after it all and confront them?

if ur g/f or b/f is the natural flirty type should u really trust them??

I would love to know any answers or opinions or stories from anyone. thanx in advance to those who reply

[sh_2000_ca]

Archer, you should really take it from me
Iam 17 years old right now, and my Ex- is 19. she really liked me and did so much for me. the only problem was that... well... i didnt trust her, cuz she was a flirty person.
so we talked about it, and she stopped flirting with other guys. it was amazing, cuz it feels wonderful to know that someone else cares for you, and really loves you. But she was only hiding it, it is her personality. she wanted to flirt, cuz its her, u cant change that, so we broke up cuz "i tried to control her life" appearntly... word of advice from me.. if ur gf / bf is a flirty type, dont ever get offended when they do that in public, or dont ever try to talk about it. cuz for me it made everythin worse.. But this is from my point of view only..

Peace

[demonbuttercup]

well i think you should talk about it and let them know that their flirting kinda makes you uncomfortable but hopefully they will assure you its just their personality and it doesn't mean anything.
like archer said, you can't MAKE someone into what you want them to be, but if you talk about it maybe they might at least tone it down a little.

[archer]

That's heaps true demonbuttercup,... talking bout it is better than not i reckon, because after a while all that hurt and being uncomfortable will build up to something worse. wat sh_200_ca is also very true bout not being able to change a person (not to mean this in any bad way) but maybe u were just unlucky wif ur g/f, im sure ull find some1 else who loves u enough to care about ur feelings and perhaps if not change everrything but come to a compromise wif you and work things out wif you.

However hte question is still out there....wat type of things/actions would you take and not take?

[archer]

That's heaps true demonbuttercup,... talking bout it is better than not i reckon, because after a while all that hurt and being uncomfortable will build up to something worse. wat sh_200_ca is also very true bout not being able to change a person (not to mean this in any bad way) but maybe u were just unlucky wif ur g/f, im sure ull find some1 else who loves u enough to care about ur feelings and perhaps if not change everrything but come to a compromise wif you and work things out wif you.

However hte question is still out there....wat type of things/actions would you take and not take?

i'd like to ask for everyone to reply or ask themselves those questions