Depression & Jealousy

[Dego3398]

I had her and she dumped me. I did everything I could and she gave me an excuse and dumped me. told me we could still hang out now she ignores me. You know that thing you would do when you liked someone...youd see they were in the room and try to catch a peek at them when they not lookin. And act good so she dont think youre weird. I still do this. Im jealous beyond belief. Im depressed. I want her so bad i cant think of anything else. somebody please jsut tell me somthing

[Tjdude]

Sorry about that dude, but u can't do a thing, if she doesn't like you any more, than it's over. You should try to find something to do, to keep you busy, and stay away from her, put some distance, because right now, you have like and open wound, an prolly you are just going to get hurt if you stay near her.
Go out with some friends, and find some one to talk to, that helps a lot, just keep moving, and time will heal you. Also, there is a chance that, after some time of not seeing you, she might start to missing you (small chance i tell you). Good luck.

[archer]

Tjdude is completely and i mean completely right...u have to get your mind off her by any means either work, play, goin out wif friends!

good luck

[Dego3398]

I know that this is another typical dude gets heart broken becasue he a fool scenario. But its differewnt becasue its not like i was looking for a girl and found her and it sucks that i dont have a girl. I wasnt looking at all but when I found her, I couldnt go on without being with her. I dont want another girl. I just want her. And now she acts like im not there and its enough to make me miserable

[PennywiseEvilClown666]

Well, i'd try talking to her. Approach her when she's alone and tell her exactly how you feel. I know it may not be easy, but trust me if you do it you'll feel better because you'll know either one of two things. A: being that she is possibly going to understand how you feel and possibly want you back. B: If she shoots you down you can live with the satisfaction of knowing you tried to your fullest and that now you need to find someone else. I know this may sound harsh, but that's life. It happens, and when it happens and no matter how bad it hurts you have to adapt or move on. Trust me i know because i never moved on for the longest time because i was stewing over a girl who was the first true love that i had. I never thought there was anyone better for the longest time, and then i realized that there will be someone better that comes along. And that girl will better than her in many ways, not to mention in the way that she will be willing to love you back and make you happy! That to me means it's better!