Christmas Gift for Online Freind...

[MizMinx555]

Okay so I have been talking with this guy for over a year now. We met in a chat room on the net, and in an impulsive moment that first day, I gave him my phone number. We have been talking at least once a week ever since. I'm very very close to this man, I tell him everything, we *have been intimate (as intimate as one can get over the phone), though we have never met, face to face. We have plans to meet this March during spring break. But... my question is should I get him a gift for the Holidays (Hes Jewish)? Would it be out of line? Any sort of input would be apprieciated....
Also is it possible that I could be inlove with him. I think I might be, but is it really possible without never seeing him in person? Should I tell him? Should I wait to say anything until we meet? I dont want to freak him out. I know he cares about me greatly but I dont know if he's there yet! He takes love very seriously (as do I), and I know he wants to be sure...

Thank You

[sweetiez]

I think getting hem a gift online is no problem.I think it should have meaning to it.Since you two been talking for about a year nowand you too are close i see no problem with that at all!Go for it=).And about how you may think your inlove with hem.I would honestly wait to tell hem when you see hem okay?Just since you have never met hem yet.U never know you know what he looks like currect?Well if not telling hem you may be in love with hem is tearing you apart maybe you should but if it isnt u really should wait to tell hem in person:) good luck with hem!!! i wish you the best!

[mike]

Theres nothing wrong with it. I wouldn't go for a huge gift or anything though. Ie, there's a girl I've known online for about 1.5 yrs now (we're just good friends though, not in love or anything) and I had a couple books that she was interested in buying... so I just didn't say anything about them and went ahead and sent them to her for her birthday.

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] ]Also is it possible that I could be inlove with him. I think I might be, but is it really possible without never seeing him in person?

Whether you can or not, I don't know. I personally decided that I wouldn't allow myself to fall in love until I had met them in person.

[demonbuttercup]

i would send him a present. like mike said...nothing major just a little something to let him know you are thinking about him.
and yes its possible you are in love. i found my b/f online and we now live together for 2 years now.
id wait to see him face to face to tell him tho.
since its something special you'll want to say it to his face. plus you want to be sure you do and its not just some infatuation.
all that will clear up once you meet and hang out.
good luck

[MizMinx555]

I really do appriciate the input guys. In regard to the the Lurrrv issue...lol..im in so much trouble. I completely agree now about waiting, physical chemestry is a big thing, you never know whats going to happen, but oh lord. I feel like I need to talk to him, if I dont hear from him one day, I actually get sad. Im so nervous!! I worry that when I see him I wont be what he expected, that he'll be disappointed, not interested. Im a bigger girl, over 200. So is he but hes smaller than me. Hes told me time and time again that it doesnt matter, that his last girlfreind was significantly larger than me, but Im still really scared. I know that if he looks at me and I see that disappointed look, my heart will just shatter. I cant explain it....... I dunno....lol....Thank you so much again for responding yall...