How many have u slept with?

[ebony21]

Ive had loads of in-depth chats with my man, but never mentioned how many people i have slept with. I feel if i lower the number by one (which makes mine the same as his) then it will seem more special to me.

i dont know, will a white lie hurt? have u ever lied about this? ever been found out? I plan on staying with this man, as i feel there is a strong chance of him being "the one"!

[demonbuttercup]

ive only been w/ one guy...my b/f now.
i know he's had other g/f's but ive never actually came out and asked him how many. not sure if i want to do... sometimes im curious tho.
as far as your situation, i wouldn't like or adjust it by only ONE. i mean theres no reason to lie about just one extra person.
i could see if you were considering fibbing about 5 or more.
if he loves you that one extra person isn't going to matter. its not a competition.

[theharmlesssin]

well i have experienced this lie first hand. i as a male have been lied to by my ex. she told me 3.. but it ended up being 4 and it hurt me. but i eventually got over it. truthfully i dont think that you should lie in a relationship. i never have and never will

[Dirrty LiL Duckie]

I haven't had sex lol.. so I can't tell ya

but I have done everything else with about 5 or 6 ppl

[LittleFury]

I really see no point in lying about it. Lies can really hurt you if found out. And I really don't think that it will matter to him that much if you act about telling him in the right way. It could be much much worse if you lied to him about it. Especially if it's only by 1 man.
And if you plan on sticking with him, thinking that he's the one, telling him that lie will only harm your relationship in a long run.

[mike]

Telling lies is a bad habit to start in a relationship.

[?wiseman?]

IF you're talking about number of partners, I don't see any need to lie. On the other hand, why do either one of you care how many partners you've been with. I couldn't have cared less back in my dating days so long as my partner had a clean bill of health. Seems discussions along those lines are rife with landmines and you've already stepped on one.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

Wise, i totally agree... My boyfriend told me how many because i was his 2nd... but... i've had.. *counts*4 or 5....or something.. but he's never asked, so... why mention it? and not only that.. my health is.. good in that department.. and what not..and i love him so :P WHY DOES IT MATTER !!! ehehe
Jamie

[mike]

If it doesn't matter to them, theres no reason to tell. If it does matter, I wouldn't lie.

[ilusteph]

Dont lie, tell the truth...
honesty is the key to everything...loll
I am COMPLETELY honest about everything in my relationship, and its going GREAT, honesty hurts somtimes, but after they get over it, they know that you are honest, and when you compliment them they will KNOW for sure that ur just not 'saying' that.