been dumped

[SammyMouse]

ive just been dumped by the love of my life.
im 19 hes 32. we live 45 mins apart, and only see each other 3 times a week max.
we split up 2 times b4 and got back together. but he always put the split down to distance.. and i agree i want to see him more.. but he knows i am prepared to move to him.

he dumped me again and i am gutted. i am ok when im working etc. but when im alone.. i get sad. i cry all the time.
i love him so much and want him, i miss him so much.

i was with him for just over a yr, and everything is him, i knw his routine, and i know wot he will be doing and im so sad, and i miss everything about him....

any idea wot i can do to get over a broken heart.?? plz im thinking of giving it all up and ending it all.

[archer]

first thing! dont do anything you will regret or anything stupid! everyone has these bad times not just you. *the best thing i can suggest is to stop thinking bout the whole situation, do work, exercise, find something to do to get ur mind off him. *i know it will be hard, but ur life isnt worth ending for a one year relationship. *look on hte brighter side...you now konw he isnt the one. *

think of this, would you rather end it now rather than knowing wat 2moro might bring to you,...perhaps another great guy yet ending it now will most definietly end that chance! *dont close the door on yourself...and open urself to new oppurtunities.

if you need help or just want to talk , really this isnt hte place, go back and talk to family and friends they defninetly know you better and see things better because they arent in love or have just had their heart broken.

dont let yourself fall into the trap of thinking he was the 'one' ! your only 19!! you probably both want different things, because you are at different stages of your life! just dont end it all.

you have probably heard this all before, but the advice is true and right!! for nearly everyone life is the only thing worth fighting for, dont give it up because someone gave up on you. *try again....learn from this whole situation. *

you might love him, but he doesnt show it back...so wat is the point! wouldnt you rather wait for another guy who will show u the same feelings back?? *


hope this helps

[LittleFury]

Decision is ultimatly yours, but to me this sounds pretty fishy, something does not add up. Also, time heals, I'm talking from experience. I can't add much more for now, sorry. But if you want to talk more, pm me and we'll talk.

[deroxor]

my advice of getting over a broken hear is just go out and have some fun. party, go to clubs, do sumthin that is alot of fun to you. thats what i do to get over relationships. hope this helps

[cunnuslover]

find some one around your own age,you do not need him, you will want sex and he will be unable to give it to you,so find some one your age or younger,and teach him what you have learned about sex, enjoy life

[sweetiez]

I know this is hard to relaize now..but evrything he is to you may not matter to you within eh 6 months? Im not saying you will forget hem..but if this was ment to happen and did..then it was ment to be like this..maybe he isn't EVERYTHING u could EVER want..i mean i know u can realize right now.But intime it will make you think and you will think of stuff you didn'tlike about hem..what he did,said,thought,ect you know? it all takes time tellsomeone close on how ur feeling try to keep busy for awhile so you can get over hem..and remember if u date others dont go off talking about hem 24/7 they dont want to hear that. and if u think u wll do that then dont date for awhile.. hang with your friends.. be a teenager!=)