My Gf's Rushing

[parTanimal]

hi.Im new here n i jus wna say this site is cool.Neway, my prob.Ive been wiv my gf 4 a few months and we get on gr8.I do loads of stuff 2 her like oral and fingers and she likes it (i think) but she does nothing 2 me.The problem is that she now wants 2 go all the way.I find it strange that she wants to have sex b4 shes dun nethin else 2 me.I am pretty sure she has done everything b4.I want her 2 try other things on the way but she just wants 2 sh*g me.Is this normal?

[demonbuttercup]

i don't know if its "normal"
maybe she's just the type thats a taker not a giver.
so is she a virgin? or just it will be you 2's first time together?
personally, i would think that before you guys have sex you should explore each other w/ oral and handjobs etc.
stroking and giving my b/f oral is always part of our foreplay together. we dont just dive right in.

you mention a lot of "i think" or "im pretty sure". well before you 2 have sex you should be certain of all these things. communicate, talk things out w/ her. ask her why she doesn't touch you. as you'll read around the board, communication can solve a majority of problems.

[parTanimal]

yeah i know we do communicate, its strange because b4 we actually meet up she sez wot shes going to do to me etc, but then wen shes here she doznt do nethin.And no shes not a virgin, and she says shes given head 2 loads of people.Im a virgin however, n id like 2 have foreplay b4 sex.Neway, i guess we'l c wot happens..

[demonbuttercup]

well i dont understand her "bragging" oh yeah ive given head to tons of guys but you dont get any?!? thats not a very nice thing to do

just dont let her rush you into something. she's already had her first time but she should respect you and your first time.
its not going to be very memorable if you just jump right in and it will be over in 2 minutes.
yes, its likely your first time you wont be able to last long at all. especially since she hasn't gotten you off in other ways.

[definatelynewatthis]

hi....i'm also very new at this....and yes this site is freakin awesome!! anyway....you should tell her that you'd like to wait and maybe....clue her in on what you'd like her to do to you?!? maybe??? okay now i have a question....i think i'm ready to do stuff w/ my guy..... but should i tell him....or just go down on him? cause like....niether of us has ever done ANYTHING... and that scares me...i mean we're not lame.... actually we're both star cheerleader/ star basketball player people.... we just decided to wait to do anything until we felt like we had a real "relationship". so here i am....waited....have a relationship... what do i do now? guys...how would you prefer it taking place? and girls.... what did/would you do? please try not to be a smarta** about it and don't be perverted please!

[demonbuttercup]

welcome to the board definetly
you might get more responses to your question if you had posted in separately instead of attaching it to someone else's.