She is not putting out

[HandsomeCanadian]

So i have been going out with my g/f for almost 6months, and at first we were very open and we started to get serious like oral sex, handjobs, manual stimulation etc... but now it seems that she doesn;t want to do anything anymore we hardly even make out much anymore and when we do she might get distracted and just watch the tv and totally zone me out, now i treat her very good i give/do anything for her and she says she loves me but she doesn't want to put out anymore, im not forcing her to give me oral sex but she says it hurts her mouth and she gets tired doing it. what can i do to make it easier for her (and i know that she isn't very sexual) but is there a way i can get her to please me again?

thanks

[HandsomeCanadian]

is there something wrong with the forum or does nobody post?

[demonbuttercup]

nothing wrong w/ it ... it just takes some time for people to post.
not everyone visits everyday.
now for your problem.
the only way to truly find out whats going on is to talk to her. ask her why she isn't sexually attracted to you anymore and doesn't want to do anything. maybe the relationship has run its course.
i mean she says she doesn't like giving oral b/c it hurts her jaws. well what about the other stuff like making out and doing stuff w/ your hands...etc. that doesn't hurt the jaws.
apparently she's making excuses for something else.
yes its true it does get tiring on the jaws if you are giving oral for long periods of time...thats why you mix it up.. do more stuff w/ your tongue and lips as opposed to having it all in your mouth. use your hands.. others parts of foreplay. it doesn't have to be just a straight BJ.

also, how long has this dry spell been going on? a few months ago i hit a slump where i didn't want or feel like doing anything sexual w/ my b/f. i don't know what caused it or why it happened but i felt like that for a month or so. it frustrated him very much b./c he felt i didn't love and/or find him attractive anymore. i finally came out of my slump. maybe she's just going thru the same thing. or maybe she's having personal problems and is very preoccupied. it could be a number of different reasons.
try talking it out w/ her again...its the only true way to solve the problem.
hope this helps.

[duchess]

maybe focussing on her and not her 'putting out' would be an asset.

maybe she senses you think its all about you?