Do guys want to be kissed ...

[JBClvrGirl]

I know how a lot of girls have fantasies about a guy they like just kissing them out of no where. I do about this one guy that i like a lot. I know he use to like me but i dont know if he does any more b/c he doesnt act the same around me as he did when i knew he like me. i was wondering... do guys think about that too, like, about us kissing them outa nowhere? because i want to kiss him, so i was think about just doin it one day. I'm just not sure if he likes me and i dont know how he'd react. I mean, he probly go along with it anyways, but if he didnt like me, would he just think im crazy afterwards? Its a really hard question to expliin, so i hope you understand it. I'm in high school, and thats where i always picure it happening, in the hall. Im just asking, if a guy likes a girl, would he want her to kiss him hen he's not expecting it? If u have questions about my question^, just ask so i can help you help me. thanks.

[NewbieDude]

If a girl i liked kissed me id be hella happy =D

(im also in high school btw)

[hanksnow]

Most guys are oblivious as to who likes them. They stumble along tring to figure out who might be attracted to them and rarely get it right. I know that's what I did. I also know the lousy feeling you get when a woman tells you, years later, that she had a crush on you way back when. I'd have to say that you're doing both of you a big favor by kissing him and letting him know that there's something there.

[cool macs]

Yes and No, depending on who is doing the kissing...
honeslty, it depends on the dude...

Speaking for myself, assuming their was mutual attraction, I would be thrilled for not having to make the first move... You would be surprised at how much guys resent the expectations placed on them!

let us know how it goes

[archer]

(im a guy) try and be good friends with him first, good enough so you could go out somewhere with him eg movies, lunch. try and make it a little more romantic and a more memorable moment instead of the school hall . wen your able to get him to go out somewhere with you (just the 2 of you) ull also have the added bonus of knowing that he's kinda actually interested in you and you wont be embarrassed if he doesnt feel the same way as you do. just wen you 2 guys are out and having a great time and there's a small pause, looking into each other's eyes and there's an eerie moment where u feel something, throw in the kiss then

would love it if a girl took me out and just kiss me outta the blue. (my current g/f did...it was bliss!!!)

[JBClvrGirl]

thanks guys

[HngLkAMouse]

Well... what you're REALLY asking is:

"If I go and spontaneously kiss a boy that I really like, not knowing how he feels about me, will it be the right thing to do...?"

None of us can answer whether or not he likes you back... will he like the kiss...? maybe. Does he like you...? maybe. It's all predicated on HIS feelings toward you. If he likes you in that way... then SURE... he's gonna LOVE it. If he doesn't like you in that way, there are NUMEROUS outcomes that could happen; he may enjoy it and realize he never thought of you that way, he may like it but still not be interested, he may be humiliated and embarrased, he may be upset... who knows...?

Unless you have a pretty-good idea that there is a chance there or existing chemistry, then you must at-least prepare yourself mentally for the possibility of "less-than-fairytale" outcomes of your action(s). I know how easy it is for young women to get locked into fantasy and then be crushed when the weight of reality comes crashing-down on them.

I'm not saying "don't do it"... I'm just saying "Be realistic in your expectations of the final outcome"... fantasy is nice, but reality can be a bitch. It can also be wonderful. There are those moments in life that will last in your memory forever when reality mirrored your fantasy.

My advice...? Don't be locked with worry or fear. Do what you feel is best, but just keep a realistic perspective. Act upon your desires if you like, but keep your expectations low.

You never know unless you try. Best of luck.

[Pack149]

It happened to me this weekend. I was suprised, but pleasantly suprised that is. (I'm a male, by the way)

[PennywiseEvilClown666]

I have to agree with hanksnow on this one. I can think of numerous times I was bumbling down the hall at school wondering which girl i see is attracted to me and in what way. I mean someone could've been throwing me a bone, and i wouldn't of noticed until blatantly told hey she likes you.
So, if a girl were just to come up to me and kiss me...hell yeah i'd think that was cool if i was attracted to her. i mean obviously if it was some backwoods manbeast i'd be frightened and probably run away screaming. but your normal everyday cute chick..hell yeah! I love it when girls can make the first move on things. Sadly, i've only ever met one girl like that.

[El Capitan]

I love it when my girlfriend does stuff out of the blue, its a total turn on.