Am I doing something wrong?

[CrdRox]

I've been trying to be romantic and sexy, but my girlfriend sees it as an a ttemot to get in her pants. I've told her no, but I do love having sex with her, and she doesn't believe me. She also won't let me have sex with her more than once a month! Is it a crime to try and enjoy sex with her more than once a month? We're both 20, and I feel like she doesn't want me around any more.

[demonbuttercup]

i dont really see where your g/f is coming from!?!
i mean its understandable if you first meet a girl and she thinks you are just trying to "get in her pants"
but you've already been in your g/f's pants so whats the problem.
she should enjoy it and not think you are trying to take advantage of her.
so whats w/ this once a month stuff??
i mean do you guys set up a date an d say ok this will be our monthly day to have sex?
that just doesn't make sense.
sex isn't something you really set a quota on it just happens when you want it to... you know?

sorry i dont have much advice i dont really understand the situation. id ask her about all of it and if she doesn't want to talk about it then find another girl who will love you for your romantic side.

[deroxor]

Originally Posted by [b

Quote[/b] (demonbuttercup @ Oct. 16 2003,10:57)]sorry i dont have much advice i dont really understand the situation. id ask her about all of it and if she doesn't want to talk about it then find another girl who will love you for your romantic side.

i agree it sounds like shes just taking advantage of you, no advice realy accpet talk to her about it. ask her what is the point of it, if she doesnt wanna talk about then, guess its up to you what to do.