Scared first timer

[12345]

I had been dating this guy for about two months and we both really like eachother, we weren't to physical, but near the end, we were fooling around and he stuck his hand down my pants. I really wanted to be able to take it to the next level but i was got to scared and we ended up breaking it off. I still really like him and it is possible to get back together with him, but i'm just scared that maybe somethings "wrong" with me down there and i don't know about it. I really want to try and work things out. Any advice??

[demonbuttercup]

i dont know if im completely sure what you mean?
most girls have concerns about stuff like... will they be clean enough down there? or will it smell...etc.
daily washings w/ soap and water usually take care of any doubts.
if this isn't what you are talking about... sorry i was confused

[mike]

Basically you're afraid that you're abnormal or something? I don't think you need to worry about it, everybody is unique

Or if its smell or cleanliness simply washing will solve any problems.

[ebony21]

shes just what she said she was in the subject, scared!

its perfectly natural to be nervous, i was with my first bf

infact i still get nervous when i do "firsts" with new boyfriends! the best thing to stop being scared is to compleately trust the man u are with, 100% trust is the answer. I decided not to take anything to any kind of next level until i knew for sure i really liked & trsuted them

most of all RELAX! and enjoy take things at ur own pace, if he cares for u, it will please him as well (and also donw rush him! he might be as nervous as u!)

[definatelynewatthis]

hey girl.....for real no joke you sound just like me! i've never done anything to this day...but i'm so worried about what "he" will think when something does happen. am i all good down there? i've finally come to the conclusion that no matter what i am ready! like i actually am looking forward to doing something. i think though i want to give him head first.... but after that i want to be cool enough to let him do stuff to me too! it will be both of our first times doing N E thing and yeah i'm nervous but i totally trust and respect him... and he's the same w/ me.... so it should be a matter of days! i'm sorry i just wrote all of that.....none of that helped you did it? (i'm just overly excited) we've been together about the same time you and your guy had....2 and a half months....next time we're alone together i think i might .....yeah! any advice for me anyone? (while you're helping her too of course!!!)

[LittleFury]

Sweetie, nothing is wrong with you, you are just not ready. Your time will come, at some point a guy you're with will be begging you to give him some rest
But really, you're just not ready, and let the guy go, he ain't worth it.
PM me if you want to talk more

[sweetiez]

If he broke it off because you two weren't sexually enough for hem..then no dont get with hem! his a jerk thenlol. and in that case you can do better