going on the sea...alone

[flower]

maybe it sounds oldfashioned but one question:is it ok if girl goes alone on the beach for holiday if she is "fresh" married but her husband was not there?!
i have been told my husband doesn´t care for me and don´t love me because he "let" me go there alone...because on the beach,cheating is more probable...isn´t it just trust?
what do you guys think?

[mike]

Well I don't really see anything wrong. Maybe if it was like the second day of your honeymoon and he told you to go on while he went out drinking or something, I'd kinda wonder.

If he couldn't go with you.. I'd be happy that he's willing to let you go out and have fun instead of trying to keep you on a leash.

[?wiseman?]

Flower, I don't see anything wrong with it, assuming that your husband has something important to do- work, etc. If, however, he's telling you to go ahead and take holiday by yourself because he's not interested in going to the beach for holiday with you. Then you might have a problem in that he's not interested in spending the time with you even though the beach is not his thing.

Sounds to me like your friends don't trust you to be faithful to your husband, but he does.