PLEASE HELP

[SammyMouse]

my boyfriend split up with me about a month ago, maybe a little over that.

i love him still and he finished it coz he sed it wasnt working. which is fair enough, but i love him, and it gutted me that he didnt want to be with me.

after a couple of days of texting each other, i asked him not to txt me anymore as it wasnt fair on me.... i coulndt move on if he keeps texting me...

ive moved on a little and i dont sit around crying over him, but its hard. i met someone else and i really like him, but i cant stop thinking about my ex,he text me the other day to ask how i was, so i replied and we sent about 6 txts, one in which he told me he wanted to txt me ages ago but didnt know how i would react and that he still thinks alot of me and misses me lots.... i feel the same... i love him.. i know there is nothing there anymore. and i wouldnt put myself in the situation where i felt worried as to when he was going to finish me again,

the thing is i really like this new lad, but i feel like im cheating in a way, and i feel like i should compare him to my ex, because i was so comfortable with me ex and i feel like i have lost so much from losing him...

please help.. what should i do, im not going to take him back, nor has he asked me too,, but i dont know wot im meant to feel or what im meant to do about this new man.

Please Help.....

[nodoubt16pb]

THE LOSER said he still loves yuo and misses you when he broke up with you already.... let go of him... have some self respect you don't need this loser... he said he didn't want you and is getting off on hwo you are still around and worried and in love with him still... he is getting off on it. You need time for youself today... chances are you will get with this new guy and then you LOSER EX-BOYFRIEND AND YES HE IS A LOSER... will come up and trot you off leaving the new bf who is a decent by for all i know behind wheeping like you are. DO YOU WANNA DO THAT WITH YOURSELF AND HIM?! AND DON'T feel like you are cheating on him with this new guy........ YOU AND YOU LOSER EX are over! Move on... ik nwo it is hard but he is a loser getting off on the fact that he broke your heart and how you are now screaming fo rhim to come back... IF HE LOVED YA SO MUCH HE WOULDA ASKED YOU OUT OR NEVER WOULDA BROKE UP WITH YOU IN THE FRIST PLACE. Get over him... i know i am a bitch about it but really.... get over him! Go out with this new nice guy he deserves it way better than your LOSER ex.

[Junocozmos]

If it's over it's over...move on and meet new people.
Dont let anyone mess with your head. Go for a new life, new love and a new adventure in finding yourself. No one should ever make you feel "gutted".
Live life.
Good luck.

[Rawbob]

If i were you, i'd ask him WHY he misses u? Don't settle for a simple answer, if he had the balls to say "it's not working - which is male shorthand for "i don't want to settle for you, someone better may come along!"

Make him tell you exactly why he misses u. I will bet, you'll find more than one reason to keep seeing the NEW GUY!

Also, learn from this past relationship. Try and avoid the mistakes u made in the past! Give the new guy a try!