08-08-2003, 03:10 PM
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I've pretty much established that I'm breaking up with my very clueless unobservant boyfriend. However, I've never really had to breakup with anyone. My first boyfriend and i just drifted apart, no horrible seperation or anything, we still talk all the time. And my last boyfriend, I couldn't even tell you how it ended, one day it just did and that was that, I still talk to him as well.
But, this guy, whole other story. I can just see myself spelling out that things are over and him still not getting it. I've been dropping hints all summer. I hardly talk to him, I don't load him with e-mail, when we do talk I pretty much sit and make up excuses, yet he doesn't question a thing. I refuse to break the whole thing off over the phone, which is why things are being dragged out. I care about him a lot and want to still talk to him and be friends with him, just as I am with my other ex-boyfriends, but the line "we can still be friends" seems I don't know...a little overused on TV. 
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08-10-2003, 06:17 PM
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Sounds like your boyfriend doesn't want to break up. He's in a dream world, and there's very little to snap him out. I know, I've done that before too. I know it's horrible to say, but maybe you should just lay it down on him. That's what my ex did, yet she never dropped sublte hints.
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08-11-2003, 08:26 PM
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You really need to just sit him down and say "look, its over.Period" The longer you drag it out the worse it will be.
Live life. Good luck.
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08-11-2003, 08:44 PM
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maybe he just is a little oblivious to your 'hints' try sitting him down and telling him youd rather be friends.
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08-17-2003, 08:16 AM
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Try telling him it's not working, or you just cant handle romantic relationship...
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08-17-2003, 03:17 PM
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Just say to his face, since you don't wanna do it over the phone, you gotta have balls and big ones cuz these thigns are not easy... at all... i want something different.. you are not working for me and i am not happy with youi want something different just really tell him how you feel. He may not be as stupid as you think though he may get the hints and is just giving you your space.. just be honest with him.
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