Is she losing interest in me?

[scooter]

Hey everyone!
well, ive been in a relationship with my gf now for 2 months and its been goin really great! I love her so much, and miss her more when we are apart!

Anyways, ive got somethings that i need advice and opinions on if no one minds to much (thanks!!). Lately, im findin it hard to talk with her....shes very withdrawn and not her usual self. Shes grumpy simply put. And i dunno what to do about it. I skipped a family vacation, so that we could be together for our 2 month (yah yah i know ive already heard that its 'only been 2 months!' but i love her!), and when i suprised her she didnt even seem to care.

Meh, theres alot more to the story...shes been talkin to her ex-bf's alot lately, mostly a guy who was her 'fu&k buddy' for 3 years...and im worried that somethin is gonna happen...

I just had to get alot off my chest, if anyone cares to know more just write back and ill explain it...

Thanks,
scooter

[Brauul]

There are really a number of things that could be happening. She could have lost interest in you and she is really not sure how to go about it (worst case scenario). She could be depressed. Not because of something you did, but it could be a hormonal imbalance. Or it could be situational depression. She may hate some aspect of her life and the relationship with you is being put into the background a little, because she is focusing on other stressful issues. I would honestly try and just talk to her as much as possible. You don't have to be blunt and flat out ask her if she loves you (at least not yet) but, you could try and ease into different subjects and see what's going on. If she was acting one way one day, then strange the other, try and figure out about when that happened to see if you can find a correlation (holy run on sentence). It could be something she did and feels really guilty about (having a fling and feeling bad about it). It's really a hard call since there are so many factors. you should also define "lately". Past week or couple weeks? I mean it sounds dumb, but part of it could be her period (granted that doesnt last long but hey, ya never know). I am no expert here. Just a nice guy giving out my opinion. good luck.

[Junocozmos]

There could be many different factors as to why she might seem withdrawn. Depression, maybe pms, family problems. Just stick with it and make sure shes aware that you are there for her if she needs to talk to some one. And ask her how she feels, lets her know that it bothers you that she still chums with her ex's (which doesnt always mean cheating).
Live life.
Good luck.

[nodoubt16pb]

You needa tell her you love her cuz i get a weird feeling she is thinking that she wants to go back with her ex by the f*** buddy thing cuz if you just go out with someone just to f*** em you don't have that much self esteem for themselves. You needa tell her that you love her and that this guy only wants to have sex with you but i on the other hand love you and everything you are. I think she is in a hard place... maybe she is just going through something else that she can't talk to anyone about... maybe her family is nagging her for not going on the trip... Just talk to her be patient with her and ask her what is wrong... if there is anything wrong