Mixed Signals HELP!!

[Tragz]

Hey.

To make a long story short me and my ex have been in apart for 3 months ( 7-8 month relationship). and we decide to be friends ( I guess for now). We didnt end the relationship on a bad foot. But now since we are apart more than ever I have fell more in love with her ( If I know what love is?). We still talk but its rare maybe 1-2 times a week. She has me confused. I'm not sure if she still has feels for me or shes blowing me off. I get mixed signals. Like she'll call me and tell me she misses me but when i try to make plans to be together with her in the end we never get together.
I asked her why she doesnt call me that much anymore and she tells me she waits on me to call first. Cause shes not sure I'm still into her.
She really put me on the spot when she asked " Why havent i been with other girls." I told her truthfully that I have but it doesnt feel the same when im with other girls. I think of her. She said that she hopes im not lying and she needed to know that cause she thinks of me at night or some crap like that. I gave her a doll at christmas that reminds of her of me. She tells me she still kisses it at night before she goes to sleep. Im scared to tell her that i want to get back together and i love her cause more than ever now im scared she will reject me. The signals she gives straight confuses me. I've never felt this insecure in my life towards a girl.

[Rawbob]

here's my advice!
call her and make a "DATE." and make it clear that it's a date!

Then, just clearly share your feelings with her, that you'd like to see her again and ask her what she'd like to see changed in the NEW relatiohship that she didnd't have in the first!

Sounds like she's looking for you to take the inititive! Give it a shot, be honest - the rest will be up to her!

[Tragz]

Hey Rawbob

Thanks for the advice. Im starting to feel like she doesnt care about me. There not away I could tell that she does cause it seems like its hard for her to make a phone call and ask me to go out somewhere just even has friends. I dunno my other Lady friends ask me. ~ Insecure ~

[nodoubt16pb]

She is playing games with you and that is not fair tell her how yuo feel and tell her to stop playing these games with you... if she loves you she wouldn't do this to you.