Relationship TOO perfect?

[Brauul]

Ok I am going to have to give some back story so bear with me. *I am a male and am 26 years old. *About 3 1/2 months ago I recieved a reply to a personal ad I had put on a webpage. *We talked for awhile then progressed to the phone. *We talked every night for hours on end. *Basically we went through the whole "holy crap we are so alike!" *kind of thing and all that. *Basically a month after this furious phone talk, we finally met and really hit it off. *She is 21. *Now I was very nervous about the idea of a relationship only because I was a virgin and had never even kissed a woman before, and she was very experienced and had had a few relationships. *Well needless to say, we have slept together and have never looked back. * Not only has she told me that I am well endowed, but I apperently had given her the best sex she had ever had. *I even cured her fear of oral sex to the point of her being addicted to me going down on her! *She has even said that I am the best thing that has happened to her and that our relationship is perfect....Now my problem is that this whole relationship seems too....easy.....There is no friction at all. *My parents love her, and her parents love me. *We don't fight and can't even figure out how to fight. *We are the best of friends and seemingly great lovers. *I just seem to have this...fear that it is not this easy. *I also am having the hardest problem defining love. *She asked me why I loved her, and I could not really answer. *I just know I do. *I mean if I didn't, I wouldn't miss her when she leaves or just want to be near her all the time. *This is just such a strange thing for me to experience, and I guess I wouldn't mind some opinions or advice or um anything pertaining to this relationship or anything relating to relationships in general. *Thanks for anything in advance.

[Poohbear]

All I can say is: Enjoy it while it lasts, pray it will go on forever and never take it for granted.

I've been in some very very bad relationships, and you seem to be a lucky guy. Take it from me. When you find something that great dont spend the time you have with that person worrying about the insignificant small stuff, you have to allow yourself to be happy. If your in love, you'll know it.

Poohbear

[Shorty43]

I've asked my boyfriend why he loves me before, not as a test or anything, basically to figure myself out, and all he ever says is "because I love you, I just love you." Despite the fact that he's never ever had a reason for loving me, I know he does and it kills him that we apart right now. I don't think that your relationship is therefore abnormal or anything, it is something you kind of fell into for the better. Those are the best relationship and you should enjoy it.

[itpurt]

dont look 4 problems that dont exist

[cool macs]

not to doubt what you have going on, but that old saying has haunted me many times...

it its too good to be true, it probably is...

Keep your head up :P

[Brauul]

Ya know, I really had to think about this for awhile. I think about stuff WAY too much. Why the hell should I worry? This woman has said I am the best thing that has ever happened to her and that I don't even realize just how much she loves me....Ugh every one of the replies has been right. I shouldn't worry about something that as of this moment won't happen. I will worry when either of us actually start to see problems (well big problems). Thanks all for the comments and support.

[shetan]

I know what you mean man, my g/f and I are like two pieces of a puzzle easily fitting together. I always thought love was an imperfect thing, but everytime we find a hole, he both talk it out and fix it. I can really only think of one time we got into a slight disagreement, but it really can't be counted as a fight, just a shortsidedness on my part.

But coming from personal experiece, such relationships are hard to come by and in no way should be taken for granted. I love my g/f more with each day, and there's nothing I say that can express my feelings for her.

I will admit that her family was a bit hard to come by, but they are starting to come around, mostly b/c she's the youngest in the household and parents hate to see their 'baby grow up' (no pun intended against anyone). But, as I said, they're starting to accept me into their family. I know I'm going to hold onto this for as long as I can, and I really urge you to do the same b/c you may not find another one like it.

[chook]

its simple buddy. there is no way to define love. you only know that youre in love. so if it feels right, it probably is. enjoy, its the greatest feeling in the world.

[?wiseman?]

Brauul, to quote one of my favorite lines- "don't kiss a gift whore in the mouse." Don't know what that has to do with your post, but it popped into my head.

You're right, it's not that easy. You guys are at the lust and infatuation stage of your relationship. As you become more emotionally attached, and less physically, you'll begin to find little quirks and things that aren't of mutual interest. As your relationship progresses, you'll have arguments and disagreements. That's when you'll figure out if the easy times balance with the difficult times. If so, that's when you know that you're in a good relationship.

[Verdilak]

Nothing can be too perfect just enjoy your time and don't stress.