Ok, this topic isn't to offend anyone, now that i've said that:
I have recently gotten quite close to a girl i've been dating same, age as me (16), and I wanna move onto some physical intimacy as does she (kissing so far).
Thing is she is a christian which I don't have a problem with, however she isn't allowed sex from what I know, but is she allowed to kiss etc or do any foreplay, or is that forbidden, I don't want to offend her and I don't wanna make her feel forced to do anything.
Thanks in advance to any help offered.
Me being a Christian i can help you. She cant have sex until she is married and cannon have foreplay or anything that has to do with breast feeling oral play or anything like that all she can do i kiss. much easier for a girl then a guy like me. I hope you can respect all that since its pretty hard to not do those things.
Yeah, I think you should just talk to her about it. I know that'll probably be a little scary, but I think she will feel more respected if you talk to her first then if you just try to "let her lead". And if you're really mature enough to handle sexual activity, then you should be mature enough to talk to her about it. And, please, respect her wishes, even in the heat of the moment.
she's the one who knows her faith best. she'll do what she's comfortable doing without it becoming too big a sin. So i'd say either take it slow and let her kind of lead once you get things started or simply sit down and talk to her about it beforehand. It's so bad that people have relationships where they are unable to talk about their limits or desires and end up being unhappy because of it. A couple really should be comfortable enough to talk about an act together before they perform it.