Hi Amber,
I am the person responsible for the rumor on this Board. The refractory (recovery) period depends upon a person's age and how he is "wired". As a general rule, the down time is between 15 and 30 minutes, although this encompasses the male population as a whole. Teenage boys can certainly be the exception to the rule.

If there should be a next time, consider lending him a hand-yours, again--and, yet again if he wants to go for thirds. The same holds true for you with him if and when that time comes. If you are able to enjoy multiple orgasms, your refractory period will usually be moments by comparison, and, you will be able to enjoy many more orgasms than the three or four he will most likely be limited to. The fun comes in pacing yourselves so that at least some of your successive ones are timed to match his.

I hope this clarifies the matter. Got questions?

If a guy is young, really horny and has been "saving up" for a while, he can easily finish twice in a row with almost no recovery time. When I was 19-20 years old I could do that, but now I'm getting a little older and recovery time is more like 10-15 mins at best.

:D [QUOTE=moose_hd;154301]If a guy is young, really horny and has been "saving up" for a while, he can easily finish twice in a row with almost no recovery time. When I was 19-20 years old I could do that, but now I'm getting a little older and recovery time is more like 10-15 mins at best.[/QUOTE]

and I'm a little older yet...I'm good UP TO one time a day!!
:D :D

Thank you for your contribution, Amber. Feel free to look around the Board and to peruse its many fascets. The Board exists to help each and every one of its participants. If you have additional questions or concerns, please feel free to ask.

Also, just because he does it sometimes, don't expect that he always will. These things vary ... sometimes for kind of obvious reasons, but also sometimes for no reason at all.

this has happened to me once or twice. i just presumed ...well i dont have any idea what i thought =|

nice to here its normal

For me it's 10 to 15 min,or it depend;s what my wife does.If she really get down and dirty it might be quicker.

hm I have found that I can go one after the other masturbating with little time between if I use anal stimulation the second time (or sometimes reverse) I just feel like going at it again immediately

> I use anal stimulation the second time (or sometimes reverse) I just feel like going at it again immediately

Other ways to jumpstart an orgasm are:

* Fingering the sphincters
* Massaging the prostate
* Lightly squeezing a testicle
* Nipple play

All done when a guy is very highly aroused and approaching a climax. Doing one or more of these things along with other forms of caresses with the other hand will definitely help jumpstart an orgasm that is being difficult to trigger.

the splincer is the anal entance and the prostrate is a gland in the anus that produces the bulk of semianal fluid and it is very sensitive. I personally use an old tooth brush hande to stimulate mayself - no I'm not gay (as someone had the idecency of stating on this board - his uncomplementary post was removed prontly) it is just that men do derive pleasure from it. if you plan on using your finger though put a condom over it or use a surgical glove and lube

> the splincer is the anal entance and the prostrate is a gland in the anus

More nearly correct is that the anus is the orifice.
The Prostate gland is located a couple of inches inside the rectum along the anterior (front) wall. It can be felt as a small walnut-shaped bulge or protuberence under the lining.

http://www.liv.ac.uk/researchintelligence/issue21/images/prostate.jpg

The two sphincter (muscles) are located around the passageway between the anus and the rectum.

Here is a link to a reply I just finished that may be of interest to you:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/18797-i_wanna_wow_him.html#...

women do not have a prostrate but you can steel feel pleasure as it rubs your vulva from the inside and the soincer is still sensitive

These last two posts are ambiguous at best. Amber, you left a few choice words out of some sentences so I find it difficult to follow your train of thought.

> > women do not have a prostrate but you can steel feel pleasure as it rubs your vulva from the inside and the soincer is still sensitive

Newtolove, what are you saying? This makes absolutely no sense.

Do women have a prostate gland per se? No; however, the G-spot and the prostate share the same heritage and are derived from the same tissues.

Every human has the sphincter muscles just inside the anus and along the passageway. They function to move matter to the outside world and tend to rebel when asked to accept objects going in. This is one reason why "conditioning" them is a darn good idea before inserting anything other than the finger used to do this. The other reason is that a well lubricated finger will distribute the lubrication around when you move it back and forth and all around. Another key to anal play is to consciously relax the sphincters. Some authorities even suggest "bearing down" as if to poop as this will make accepting an object go easier. Easier is also accomplished by not pushing or shoving or jabbing an object (toy or penis or even the finger) inside. Use gentle pressure only and proceed slowly. Lastly, if you tease the nerves in the anus and in the passageway, then the person on the receiving end will become more turned on and receptive.

Did this answer your question? If not, let me know and I'll have another go at it.