When it comes to sex, it's pretty hard to decide what's normal and what's not normal. At this point, I figure that if someone does something, then it must be normal.

The treatment of this question by the porn sites showing wome getting soaked is not realistic and is demeaning.

Now let's get to the fact of the matter. We women never quite know when that thing is going to explode. The younger, the more unpredictable. Whether we like or not, we better learn to enjoy it.

I would not say what is normal. I will say that it brushes out of the hair readily once it dries. 'Nough said by me.

Your right BRANDYE she will not get pregnent, that's one thing to consider.I guess I got some answer from you ladies I know that most woman are not confortable with the idea of speaking their mind. They are to afraid that it may portrayed as slutty.Like my girl for example. When I tried to ask her she said because it pleasing me and besides it's something most guys want also she said she doesn't like to swallow(she was shy and gave me mixed answers)but when we have sex she likes it her and all over her.
I think most women have a hard time admiting (even in front of the mirror) that they like to get kinky more than men.

For example one of you said that porn movies are demeaning, but for some reason you like to do the stuff your self ( famous money shot)
and don't get me started on being "improperly potrayed"

I find actually seeing/watching pornography quite offensive/degrading, but i absolutely love it when my boyfriend cums all over me. I guess i'm just not into porn.

I like to see it in videos more than I like to have it happen to me

Some women like it some others don't. My ex-g/f hated it, and my gf love it so much, some times she gives me a hand job or a bj just because she wants me to come on her breasts .

I need to know if my girl is a freak. She loves getting cummed on all over her body and face.I just want to know is it normal or should I be worried. To all the females out there your opinion, please!!!

I didn't mean to call her a freak or any of you ladies (sorry!!!) I was just asking for your personal opinion. Is it common and what's so enjoyable about it. I'm kind of young and still learning.

So far non of you answered my question. You say it's ok and you do it for your boyfriens. I heve never asked her for it or even wanted it and she still asks to be cummed. Maybe it's hard for a woman to admit that they like it( like to be dominated or something). I know that some of you do that because you like to pleasure your guys but it's not the case here.

It's not live or death issue for me but it would be nice to know what's inside women's heas. So please be straight with me.
Thanks for your view on my problem.

... and she will not pregnant this way. Might that be considered?

I have grown up with many women afraid to speak their minds and ask for what they want,play games,give mixed signals,etc...

I guess it's still happening with a lot of people where either male or female, unless you're comfortable with your partner,you won't say "yes I enjoy this" or "no,I don't enjoy it" etc... or come off as inhibited and hide your feelings about certain sexual behaviors for fear of being thought of as a "slut" or "whore."

Bottom line: Communicate.

I for one, very much enjoy when a man cums on any part of my body. (just not the face or hair,but accidents happen).

I'm not too sure about your "complimentary" description of your g/f as a freak - but that aside ... everyone has different tastes and likes/dislikes.

personally I luv to have cum on, in and around me - lol.

so, if she is a freak, then i guess so am I!

That's ok rolemodel, my answer was kinda tongue-in-cheek, I knew what you meant.

anyhow, re the "WHY do I like?" part of your question. It is kinda hard to explain, but it is fun, a bit voyeuristic (watching the action) and I luv to see the climax of the fun we just had. it's like watching the end of a race, just puts the finishing touch to it. I don't want to see it all the time, but it is fun for variety.

girlygirl is definitely right - in the eye is NO fun. it happened to a g/f of mine and she had a blood-shot eye for over a week! try explaining THAT one to friends and family! LOL

also, I think it is fairly common, but maybe not everyone's taste.

hope that helps ya understand better!

Well stated yippi. Rolemodel, I said straight out it happens and we women better learn to like it while also saying it can be demeaning as improperly portrayed. I am certain some women would be sickened by the thought of a guy coming on her breast. I am also certain that other enjoy it. Different strokes, guy, do not look for absolute answers in preferences.

No.

heh, if my guy cummed on me, I'd prolly want him to cum on my chest. THAT sounds hot! :wink:

I find those pics of guys squirting into women's faces to be offensive. But then, in the noral course of events, we women usually discover that a hard penis is liable to go off at any time.

I have ended up with semen in my hair, my eyes, my chest and about everywhere else. It happens when messing around and I like that.

The pics seem exploitative.

The first time a guy came on me, I was thuroughly shocked and disgusted. However, with a few years of experience under my belt, I find it somewhat enjoyable to have a guy cum on my body, but still don't like it on my face (that stuff is NOT fun to get in your eye). I think a lot of girls like that sort of thing--or pretend to for the sake of their boyfriends.

thanks for your advice. I guess it's the 'face' factor that I was freaked. I guess every one it different and there is nothing wrong about it. I just have to be more open minded.

ummm rolemodel, i believe i DID answer your question - please re-read.

in my case has nothing to do with "domination", or just to pleasure my guy (though that IS part), it is cause I enjoy it, for the reasons I gave.

of course, that's only 1 girl's opinion ...

Well, she can't get pregnant...if you're careful about where that stuff goes.  Just don't let any of it drip to close to her vagina.  Those sperm are tricky little bastards, and if they can find a way to an ovum, they will.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with adding a little kink into your sex life. It sure is nice breaking from the norm and having a little excitement. Might be messy, but you could always bathe together afterwards.

Damn i wish my tits were big enough to do that! *gets all frustrated* *gets even more frustrated cuz she hasn't had sex for a week*
that's it i've had it! i'm gonna go masturbate *sulks off to her room....*

hmmm my gfs breasts are big enough for that tit ****** thing but I'm not sure how to initate it... I suppose it can't be any worse then giving oral...

I dont think its weird, a lot of people enjoy that, I have never tried it, I wouldnt enjoy it all over my face, but if my b/f would like it somewhere else, Im willing to give it a try, I like to try new things, I might even like it, you never know right?

Personally, I don't really enjoy having cum all over my face and neck. When you clean it up it's all sticky. BLech. I'd prefer just to swallow it than to have it all over my face.

This past weekend, I was talking to my b/f and we got into this conversation and he said that he would like it if he could cum on me so I told him to go for it but not on my face, well he did, and it turned me on so much, if you havent tried it yet then try it, its sounds grose but it is such a turn on for both of the partners.

i like when my b/f cums on me...i like to see him masturbating over me and i like the feeling when the sperm goes on me...but NOT on the face!
Every other part is ok!

Okay, I'm new here, so give me some slack

Personally, I have GREAT difficulty discussing sex unless I'm completely unknown (such as here LOL) or if I'm in the heat of the moment.

I DO like to be cummed on... I have never had it happen to me before I met my new man, but it is a REAL turn on for me. I like it all over... on my butt, my chest, in my mouth, and especially on my pubic area. I also like to spread it all over, with my man's help, and I can masturbate and have a great orgasm when I rub it into my crocth.

Yes, I am EXTREMELY kinky, but I love it. So does my man

Anyway, in reference to your questions, rolemodel, here goes....

I know, for ME, (personal view only) that I can't talk about sexual things outside of the moment. I'm getting better at it, and it helps that my man has patience with me. Perhaps your g/f is shy like I am.... maybe ask her why she really likes it during the moment, when she's "loosened up" (bad term maybe, but I know what I mean LOL)

I haven't tried the cumming on the face thing, but it does sound intriguing... thanks ladies for the suggestions of watching out for the eyes, and how to get it out of hair!!

Personally, I don't think ANYTHING is weird or "freaky" if both partners like it. If it makes you uncomfortable doing it, talk to her about it, outside of the moment, because it might be a "mood killer", but if you like it, and you want to know why she likes it so much, ask her during the moment.

Like a lot of people here said... Communicate, but you might have to try different times, when she might be a little more open to sexual communication.

Hope that helps

I hate it. just a few days ago after messing around i was asked if he could do it on me. i said no and he did anyway. he knows i hate it. he asked me why and i said because it makes me feel like a whore. it just does, i get no pleasure out of it.

[QUOTE=Quote (vette1963 @ July 31 2002,22:07)]i enjoy watching cum shots of guys cumming on women's faces. (i guess i'm a liitle kinky) women does it bother you if men cum on your face or other parts? for what ever reason i love to cum on my partner other than in her vagina. she loves it too. are we weird?[/QUOTE]
I honestly do not have a problem with it on the face, or any other part of my body just not in my hair. You guys are not wierd, different people like different things. There is nothing at all wrong with that.

Again, i'm a bit taken aback by some of the prudish responses on here.

First, NO ONE should accept over, sexual degradation of anyone (woman or man). That said, keeping the spark in sex requires testing yourself and your partner's creativity.

If you're been with your partner for more than a week or so, and have had a fairly active sex life, and you're sure he's not some insensative moron, then by all means, try it.

When i approached my female lover about this, she surprised me, but it made sense, when she said: "Of course baby, you can cum on my face, as long as you lick it off."

So, i had to decide, if she was going to fulfill one of my fantasies (i'm a big shooter and i love seeing my cum fly), then i had to consider her desires! Trust me, it was one of the most intense "quickies" we ever had. We both got to do something new, and it's become a part of our lovemaking - especially during her period (she has very sensative nipples and pubic area during her period, so this is a fun and effective alternative!

i dont mind when my b/f cums on my stomach or chest, we do that all the time. he wants to cum on my face but i haven't let him yet. i just feel letting him cum on my face is degrading. thats how you always see the girls in the porns...lol. my b/f said he didn't see it as degrading and wouldn't think any less of me that it would be a huge turn on to him but i still am not comfortable w/ it. i think he has an oral fetish anyways b/c all of his porn has something to do w/ BJs and he always says that watching me give him oral is the BIGGEST turn on...so i don't know. maybe most guys are like this?

I don't like it on my face, just because it's so hard to avoid getting it in my eyes, nose and hair. Why do guys like this so much?

An erect penis is like a cocked gun: you are never certain when it will go off. Most women have had a few surprises during their sex lives and I. for one, have had it just about all over. That, however, is a result of sexual play not his jacking off on me. I have no objection when I get a bit sticky from "natural causes" but do object to being jacked off upon. If I am teasing him with my hair or breasts or whatever, I have to expect it once in a while. That is fun.

I have liked it in the past when guys have come on my face, but only if they told me they were going to do it first or if I asked for it, because otherwise that's just incredibly rude. I have only done it with partners I've been really comfortable and close to though. Something about it just turns me on.

I do not like the feeling of semen on me anywhere. The other day my man told me he gets so turned on and would love to squirt it in my mouth while I am giving him oral, but I just can't bring myself to let him. I also don't like when he shoots it on my chest. He thinks I need to develope a 'taste' for it.. I just can't get used to it, turn on for some, turn off for me.

I"ve never tried it on my face, but like I said in a lot of posts, I am up for almost anything, and I am willing to try that out. I think that i would like it. I would find it very sexy and I would like itl.

On the stomach is fun, but on the face can be a bit icky if it runs down and into your ear. Yep. thats happened.

My husband is very honest with me about this topic.
We watch porn together on occasion and he has remarked how sexy it is for a man to see a woman covered by his seed.
To him (and I suspect most men), it's a contol thing, sort of like marking your territory. If he wasn't my husband, I suppose I would find it degrading. Since he is, I encourage him. Having openly discussed how much this excites him makes the whole experience a turn on for me as well. So I guess what I'm saying is... If the relationship is
right, it's just having fun, and I don't mind a bit if I need a shower afterwards.

I see Rawbobs point in this, or rather his lovers point. Whenever i ask my girl if i can cum on her chest she'll say fine, sometimes she'll say no. Iguess it really depends on what mood she's in and if shes deep into the sex. It's always great when she jacks you off and then rubs your dick in the cum in her chest, absolutly incredible!!!
Rawbob did you actually clean up after yourself?

Adrian, ABSOLUTLY! As i've grown older and more open-minded, the notion of "i'm not into that" seems a more distant concept to me.

And, to be fair, why should i ask my lover to do something i would not?

From performing oral sex on my xwife after i came in her, to swallowing male lover's semen, to anal sex and more - exploring your sexuality is an important part of becoming a better person and lover!

I like it on my face. When he stradles me and ...hmmm...anyway...yeah just not in my eyes. Ouch.

I've never had it on my face, but not because I refuse. My b/f tells me that he absolutely loves to cum inside me, so it usually either goes in me down there or in my mouth. I wouldn't mind if he wanted to cum on my face or anywhere else. He's done it before on my chest, but really no where else. I think its damn sexy though when he goes on me, but I totally agree with his thinking that its sooo much more exciting and a turn on for him to go inside me. :P Mmm...so basically, I LOVE sex and his semen :P

If you are in a relationship with someone there is give and take and many ways to make it fun.  All you can do is try it, if you don't like it, don't do it, but wouldn't you like to know if you would? Some people may say it's degrading to them to have someone cum on them, but what's a better compliment than a man using your body to orgasm.

i definatly agree with rawbob. i would not ask my girlfriend to do anything i wouldnt do myself. and i really dont enjoy comming on her at all. i would rather come in her. when i do it feels im im being drawn into her and theres more than just me being me... if that makes anysense whatsoever.

i love her juices all over me or my face, when she sits over my face and i am licking her i cum on her belly she likes it masaged in then which is fun says its good for the skin.its all part of the love game some love it some hate it like kissing after oral sex some love it and so it goes

Prudish is right, Rawbob!

Perhaps I can share something insightful from a male's point of view.

When I was in my 20s all I liked was oral sex. The beauty of the woman's mouth talking in my love muscle drove me nuts to no end. The way she playfully licked and sucked at the pre-cum while rolling it around her mouth was such a turn on. Now, paradoxically, during those years my woman was not a fan of cum on her face, UNLESS I WAS FINGERING HER AS SHE WAS PLAYING WITH HER CLITORUS. Yes, she only liked it then if she was simulateously getting off (now she is pretty much ambivalent about come on her face unless she is turned on and drunk, then she wants it sprayed all over her face--what a turnaround!). Anyway, the position I was talking about entailed her laying on her back with the man kneeling right next to her with his penis dangling abover her mouth. Position your penis perpendicularly to her mouth (I'm right handed) and when you cum it will fly towards the left side of her face (NOT directly into her eyes or nostrils!) and, for me anyhow, well beyond onto books, remotes, bottles of empty wine, glasses, etc. This will provide your woman with one of the biggest turnons: to see and feel your hot cum as she herself is climaxing. Umm. . .its priceless folks. And she can do what she likes with the cum: either direct the penis towards her breasts or, better yet, onto her slick lips!