i've not personally had it done to me, but i have friends who have and they say that it's a lot different... my guy friends say it feels great... my Girl friends say it feels weird.. so i guess it could be enjoyable to some

i dont know

yea, it's definately worth it, sometimes it's just an intimacy thing, or if you're going for pure pleasure...sometimes it can be heightened, but if there's nothing to worry about go for it!

I dont have the ability to just go for it, or i would and tell you the results...

i use condoms religiously (well, actually, a lot more steadily then my interest in religion lol, anyway)... i use condoms as my primary means of birth contol so even though i have been with my bf for about 1,5 year he has never come inside me... so does anybody else have any more details about how that feels... physically and / or emotionnally... i mean i can kind of imagine but some real life experiences are always appreciated...

Is it the lateness of the hour or am I just dense? Will someone please explain what your are talking about?

> I am new to sex and am wondering about the whole cumming in someone thing. Is it enjoyable? My wife is a little hesitant to try it

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]Is it the lateness of the hour or am I just dense? Will someone please explain what your are talking about?

> I am new to sex and am wondering about the whole cumming in someone thing. Is it enjoyable? My wife is a little hesitant to try it[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I'm a bit baffled by this whole thread.

They're married, yet they've never had unprotected sex? Perplexing....

Allow me to join the crowd of the confused.

Yeah, that was a little strange. He means that he has never ejaculated into his wife. I assume that he pulls out or uses condoms, but his semen has never physically made contact with her, during intercourse. He also said that they want a baby, so don't fear her becoming pregnant. Neither one of them have STDs, which rules out that fear aswell. In the end, his question was, " Is it enjoyable?" I can only assume he means for both the man and woman.

well, i don't think we should criticize them for lack of experience...i had couple of friends who got married and swore that they never even touched each other, if that makes sense. so don't kill the guy for asking a question... :)

having my current boyfriend coming in me feels absolutely wonderful (emotionally), physically it feels a little wet :) i would also say it is a little addictive too...

No one is "killing" anyone. Just trying to figure out the question so we can respond rationally.

[QUOTE=bootylicious]Yeah, that was a little strange. He means that he has never ejaculated into his wife. I assume that he pulls out or uses condoms, but his semen has never physically made contact with her, during intercourse. He also said that they want a baby, so don't fear her becoming pregnant. Neither one of them have STDs, which rules out that fear aswell. In the end, his question was, " Is it enjoyable?" I can only assume he means for both the man and woman.[/QUOTE]

Well, if that's the case, then he needs to just cum in her and see for himself what it feels like.

well (bearing in mind i never had sex before) I always presumed that when one cums he also orgasms which is the "goal" for pleassure in sex so what is the issue. it's like saying is it pleasurable to have sex or just do masturbation ?

[QUOTE=Newtolove]well (bearing in mind i never had sex before) I always presumed that when one cums he also orgasms which is the "goal" for pleassure in sex so what is the issue. it's like saying is it pleasurable to have sex or just do masturbation ?[/QUOTE]

This analysis is fine as far as it goes, however, there is more--much more.

The very act of coupling, eg., intercourse, is for partners to become one with each other if only for moments and experience a bonding of their two psyches. The "issue" above and beyond that of an orgasm, it is also a meeting of the minds. Intercourse is the outward manifestation and expression of the love two people have for each other.

As wonderful an experience as intercourse is, it often is not as physically powerful or as enjoyable as is an orgasm derived by hand and/or mouth. The wonder of it all is in the emotional experience. The vagina is considered to be the gateway to a woman's soul; the penis is the essence of a man. These are concepts that seem to evade the young of today.

i don't even feel when my bf cums in me but the thought of it drives me crazy :P and he says that he has the best orgasm that way. it can get a little drippy for the girl but it is WORTH IT.......i highly recomend you try it at least once :P

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Am I Weird?

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Ok, I am a 14 year old male (virgin) who thinks he has a problem. I've been reading about masturbating and how everyone does it, but I don't do it myself. It just seems...weird to me. I've had oral sex before and I like it a lot but masturbating just kinda creeps me out. Will this affect me when I'm ready to have sex or will it not really make a difference? Thanks.

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Cumming in Her

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Hi,

I am new to sex and am wondering about whether or not I should come in my wife's vagina. I guess my main question is: Is it enjoyable for a woman? I don't want to try and pressure my wife into trying this just for my own gain. We both have no STD's and pregnancy isn't an issue.

ok wait..... did anyone catch this???

No way! lol Can't people just be honest!? lol I thought that was the point!

woooo.

i didnt even notice..

either way, you should treat the 14 year old and his wife with respect and answer both questions....lol.

lol @ last comment!

[QUOTE=champloo]woooo.

i didnt even notice..

either way, you should treat the 14 year old and his wife with respect and answer both questions....lol.[/QUOTE]

LMAO... good one :)

heh, thanks.

i get a kick out of doing that :D

It could be a 14 year old is just writing questions for his future as in not that he has a wife now and is not being honest, but he is thinking of the future and saying when I do have a wife, what do I do?

I think now a days sex is more for the physical pleasure and less for the connection of body, mind, and soul.

However, as I am old fashioned in some respects, I do believe that a man should cum inside the woman even if the symbolism of total union and oneness is not adhered to in today's culture, it is a beautiful smbolism of the unity of two souls for a moment blended together.

I think the greatest pleasure in sex is when you 'make love" in this deep emotional, mental, and phsyical connection and it is a total abandonment of self to the other at the same time. It can be a sharing of souls as well as just a physical pleasure.

It will depend on each person as to if it is enjoyable or not.
That is part of the joy of sex is the learning about each other and what makes it enjoyable for the partner and what does not. Every person will have their own unique preferences.

yeah i say cum in her... i love it when my bf cums in me.

It's a great sensation... very intimate

It feels good and really makes an intimate connection (and wet one!)! I love it!

Cum inside her and let it go. It's the only way to go, especially since you have no BC or STD issues to be concerned with.

forgive my ignorance in the matter, but since i've used condoms every time i've had sex i'm not clear on the matter that follows...

I have been curious, but timid to ask, what do you ladies do when the man ejaculates in the vagina? does it ooze out soon after intercourse, or is it a slower process? and does much of it get absorbed in the vaginal lining or into the uterus? I've been considering seeing if my gf would be comfortable at all having sex without a condom, and these were just some questions that came to my mind when i thought about it. I have no idea if she knows the answers, but i'm asking mainly to fulfill my curiosity. Anyway, do you dab it out with tissue or a cloth, or do you just put a panty liner in your panties to absorb it?

Hopefully this will get answered in the fray of silly comments and all. As many may recognize i'm a senior member, and i'm sincerely curious, not trying to poke fun at anyone, as i just realized it may seem.

Cmon guys don't you get the drift?

[QUOTE=Paint_Baller275]My First Time...

Hello all,

I am 16 and thinking about having sex. I am going steady with my gf and we have discussed having sex before. Can someone tell me what the first time's like? Does it hurt, what it feels... [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Paint_Baller275]Ok, I am a 14 year old male (virgin) who thinks he has a problem. I've been reading about masturbating and how everyone does it, but I don't do it myself. It just seems...weird to me. I've had oral... [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]Hi,

I am new to sex and am wondering about whether or not I should come in my wife's vagina. I guess my main question is: Is it enjoyable for a woman? I don't want to try and pressure my wife into trying this just for my own gain. We both have no STD's and pregnancy isn't an issue.

-Sorry for prior confusion.[/QUOTE]

:rolleyes:

it can be a good topic despite the BSing author of the original post. I'd personally like to have my question answered rather than have someone point out the same thing two or three other people already have about the author of the original post. i'm trying to do what everyone harps on in here and utilize the commonality of my question with the topic of the thread. Thanks

Vaga... I do tend to be "drippy" as I call it.. after he cums inside.
When he pulls out and/or I sit up.. some does tend to drip out. Afterwards I just go use the bathroom and wipe and usually. Then put a pantyliner on, otherwise, it would be messy down there, lol.