This has happened like 5 times now. I make out with my girlfriend, and sometimes it gets kind of intense... I, or she will get on top and we will make out very intimately and intensly. When it gets to this point, I sometimes cum, just from making out. Is this normal? Will this go away? Thanks.
Mon, 06/11/2007 - 16:59
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Cum when making out
Well are you guys dry humping? because if you are all that friction can create almost like a hand job and since it intense it would make you come, its totally normal if your rubbing on each other whichever way, it should go away if there not to much rubbing contact but other than that theres always a possibility it could happen:)
Not at all unusual. When arousal gets to a certain point in the man, ejaculation is inevitable. Go away? Why do you want it to? You can be ready for another one pretty quickly.
sounds like you could be quite young ? or inexperienced ? don't worry just enjoy
Young, yes. Inexperienced, yes. Dry humping, yea sometimes/sort of. Well when I said, "Will it go away?" I just meant that I don't really like having my pants wet, haha. Usually we do this at her house, and her parents are often home, etc... we don't exactly have the freedom to do all that we please. Also, once I come, I lose my erection for a while too, which I would imagine is unpleasing to her, because she is used to it being there, I don't know.
Thanks for the comments, they were very reassuring.
You could always just make sure you put maybe a towel or washcloth down the front of your pants... to catch anything... so you don't have to walk around w/ a wet spot.
Or a sock maybe :)
Haha, so creative. Yea, I guess I will have to figure soemthing out. Thanks for the advice. As you all can see I am very inexperienced... but I must say, I am learning, and I really would like to please, and impress her someday. Things keep getting better in our relationship, so I am thinking the next step is soon to come, no pun intended.
well keep learning and enjoying yourself without rushing
With practive, you will learn at what point you need to stop for a bit to prevent your cumming. You also might try cumming once on your own before
going to see her.
if your both cool with it, get naked, both of you. it will be easyer to clean up that way. :)
Getting naked would be ideal, but there is the whole parents issue. They don't always give us privacy. Well, thanks for all the help.
Surely its just your body getting extremely turned on from your girl, nothing wrong with it in my opinion, and your body will end up being able to control itself I'm sure.
p.s. you don't need the parents out of the house to get naked...just make sure they knock before they come in your room :P
haha and how does one dress instantly ?
There's nothing wrong with the two of you shooting off a load into your pants. The pants and underwear will dry. Don't worry about them.
As for getting naked, since you are young, make sure you are really ready if you decide to do that. I would encourage you to wait a little while longer dependig on how old and mature you are. Don't have sex just because other people think you should. Only do that when it's right for you. It can bring on a lot of problems if you aren't ready for it. If you do have the real sex, make sure to use protection.
[QUOTE=Newtolove;182507]haha and how does one dress instantly ?[/QUOTE]
Pants, shirt and maybe socks. Don't worry about underwear and stuff like that. Wearing your pants home with no underwear won't hurt a guy.
say if yanks mean trousers by pants (yes it took me some to figure that last sentence out) what are underwear called like what we in england know as pants
[QUOTE=Newtolove;182664]say if yanks mean trousers by pants (yes it took me some to figure that last sentence out) what are underwear called like what we in england know as pants[/QUOTE]
Oh sorry. "Pants" is American for "trousers" which is also a word heard in the US.
"Underwear" means any kind. "Shorts" can mean either men's underwear or short pants (trousers). "Boxers" are loose fitting boxer shorts but sometimes it can be taken to mean just any underwear. The tighter fitting undershorts are boxer-briefs. Briefs are what Brits commonly seem to call Y-fronts.
perhaps one day I will fathom out what america sees sinful or wrong in the plain simple language they took with them, why swap meanings its stupid, yes I read a cowboy book and only after half a book was wondering if the guys were really running around in just underpants.....
Oh the joys of first learning about sex and the little progression which is made along that journey. I still remember my first kiss and how strange it was yet still so exciting. Going from just lips, to open mouth, and then some tongue action all in one session. I remember how hard it made me and how I avoided pressing against her so she wouldn't feel how hard I was. We had some good make-out sessions together, but this relationship didn't last very long.
The next progression came with kissing and laying next to each other. Just feeling her breasts rubbing against me while kissing was nice. Once I could feel her breasts against me, I didn't worry about her feeling my hardness in my pants. And then the experimenting with intertwining legs and having her crotch against my leg and her leg right on my crotch and being so hard. This progressed to laying on top of each other and so we definately could feel each other. That is about as far as I went with the first few girls I dated and got a little involved with.
The time I learned about humping though was with more of a casual friend that we used to enjoy a physical relationsip with. We had made out a few times and things had gone pretty normal for me. Some good kissing with tongue action and she and I had no problem laying on top of each other during these sessions. We were making out one time and she was laying on top of me with our legs staggered. She moved and spread her legs so my hard cock was right on her crotch area. I thought this was nice and her pubic bone was right against my penis. She moved a little and it felt so good and I knew she enjoyed it because she started to move some more. It was just a natural reaction for me to move also. Really my first time of humping. We didn't take it very far this first time, but the next time we were together, we just kind of started out where we left off on top of each other and the start of humping didn't take very long and we would hump each other quite hard. The first time she made me cum was memorable. Before this time we would always change positions after awhile and I was glad because I knew I was getting to the point where I might cum and I wasn't sure I wanted to do it in my pants. But we were humping each other and I knew I was getting close, but instead of changing positions, I just kept on going. We were both very hot and breathing hard and then I felt it release and the throbbing and warm solution felt so good. This did end our make out session other than laying next to each other and holding each other. We only did this through our clothes and it wasn't until a few years later with another girl friend that I got to feel how humping felt of underware to underware. But that is another story all together. I never did mind releasing in my underware because the release felt so good and the cleanup was easy to do.
Enjoy the time doing this because it is fun learning and experimenting with these things. Not as good as the real thing, but we all need to learn somewhere. Some of the time now my wife and I will finish off with humping each other on the outside of her vulva. She likes the direct stimulation of the rubbing on her clitoris and it is nice to ejaculate on her stomach.
[QUOTE=coveresid;213697]Oh the joys of first learning about sex and the little progression which is made along that journey. I still remember my first kiss and how strange it was yet still so exciting. Going from just lips, to open mouth, and then some tongue action all in one session. I remember how hard it made me and how I avoided pressing against her so she wouldn't feel how hard I was. We had some good make-out sessions together, but this relationship didn't last very long.
The next progression came with kissing and laying next to each other. Just feeling her breasts rubbing against me while kissing was nice. Once I could feel her breasts against me, I didn't worry about her feeling my hardness in my pants. And then the experimenting with intertwining legs and having her crotch against my leg and her leg right on my crotch and being so hard. This progressed to laying on top of each other and so we definately could feel each other. That is about as far as I went with the first few girls I dated and got a little involved with.
The time I learned about humping though was with more of a casual friend that we used to enjoy a physical relationsip with. We had made out a few times and things had gone pretty normal for me. Some good kissing with tongue action and she and I had no problem laying on top of each other during these sessions. We were making out one time and she was laying on top of me with our legs staggered. She moved and spread her legs so my hard cock was right on her crotch area. I thought this was nice and her pubic bone was right against my penis. She moved a little and it felt so good and I knew she enjoyed it because she started to move some more. It was just a natural reaction for me to move also. Really my first time of humping. We didn't take it very far this first time, but the next time we were together, we just kind of started out where we left off on top of each other and the start of humping didn't take very long and we would hump each other quite hard. The first time she made me cum was memorable. Before this time we would always change positions after awhile and I was glad because I knew I was getting to the point where I might cum and I wasn't sure I wanted to do it in my pants. But we were humping each other and I knew I was getting close, but instead of changing positions, I just kept on going. We were both very hot and breathing hard and then I felt it release and the throbbing and warm solution felt so good. This did end our make out session other than laying next to each other and holding each other. We only did this through our clothes and it wasn't until a few years later with another girl friend that I got to feel how humping felt of underware to underware. But that is another story all together. I never did mind releasing in my underware because the release felt so good and the cleanup was easy to do.
Enjoy the time doing this because it is fun learning and experimenting with these things. Not as good as the real thing, but we all need to learn somewhere. Some of the time now my wife and I will finish off with humping each other on the outside of her vulva. She likes the direct stimulation of the rubbing on her clitoris and it is nice to ejaculate on her stomach.[/QUOTE]
How long ago was this? It sounds like it took a couple of years for you to go from kissing to shooting a load into your pants to making out with just underwear to finally having real sex. Sounds like a fun journey but it seems like people today expect to just go right for the naked sex whether they are too young or not.
Also for making out with clothes on, it would seem better for the guy to have on boxers instead of briefs. I think most guys would find it quite enjoyable to make out with briefs on but the boxers seem better for that. I'm a briefs guy saying that.
erm this thread is almost a year old where did it "rise" from ? you joined and went looking for the oldest thread ?
[QUOTE=Brandye;182109]Not at all unusual. When arousal gets to a certain point in the man, ejaculation is inevitable. Go away? Why do you want it to? You can be ready for another one pretty quickly.[/QUOTE]
ya dude its nothin to be ashamed of if ur doing things like dry humping, and theres no reason for it to go away. Im young and somewhat experienced and it still happens to me when things get really intense between me and my gf and it still happens, so doesnt think its wierd, she actually likes it, she knows it wont keep me out very long :p lol, but ya dude dont worry about it man, its natural, if she makes you do that try and repay it :cool::D;)
[quote=tommy_tucker;182418]if your both cool with it, get naked, both of you. it will be easyer to clean up that way. :)[/quote]
I just want to say be careful if you are both naked. i don't know if she is on the pill or anything. But if she is not and if you don't use a condom it is possible to get her pregnet even if there is no penitration. It is not common but possible.
I recall many years ago...MANY years ago, my then b/f admitted to his wet spot! I was clueless at the time...:o
[QUOTE=Mr. Saint;215145]I just want to say be careful if you are both naked. i don't know if she is on the pill or anything. But if she is not and if you don't use a condom it is possible to get her pregnet even if there is no penitration. It is not common but possible.[/QUOTE]
yes do use a condom when dry humping nude or anything else that involves contact