just give her time. a few years ago i hated the thought of giving a guy a bj. i just thought it was completely disgusting. but now im a little cum slut ;)

[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Sep. 03 2005,20:32)]Well, if she doesn't want to deal with it, don't make her.
Some people don't like cum all over them.  Some don't like cleaning up the mess.  Some don't like the taste of it and won't give a blowjob without a condom.
It's all a personal preference really.[/QUOTE]
i agree you have to make her confortable it all takes time... maybe later on in the relationship she wont mind but i wouldent force any thing

Oberon, that is wonderful!!! And accurate.

The topic of "messiness" of sex is a primary topic among women dealing with sexual dysfunction. If, indeed, these women choose to talk about it to therapists. These same women tend to participate in sex as a necessity but not as something for their own pleasure. All women have found the taste or drainage to be inconvenient at times. I have put condoms on partners while camping, for instance, for either oral or vaginal sex.

Oberon is right that, if we women want to enjoy sex, we need to deal with it in some healthy fashion. The same women who object to semen likely do not like their own juices - menstrual or spots in their knockers.

She needs to make some decisions and, if she wants a normal sex life, get some therapeutic help.

LOL... somehow, this strikes me as saying, "I like to swim, but I don't want to get wet".    

I'd say she has three choices (well, two really and a wish)...
1.  Accustom herself to it.
2.  Give up on sex.
3.  Really wish she were a lesbian.

Take care.

Well, if she doesn't want to deal with it, don't make her.
Some people don't like cum all over them. Some don't like cleaning up the mess. Some don't like the taste of it and won't give a blowjob without a condom.
It's all a personal preference really.

I don't mind swallowing for my guy. It seems a lot easier than cleaning up. If I ever got him worked up enough by just a handjob (which I haven't as I don't really give them), I'd swallow just to not get it everywhere. Cum gets kinda sticky after a while.
He also knows not to squirt it on me as I don't like cumshots.

So really, again, personal preference.
If she doesn't want to do it, don't make her.

I will agree with claire on one thing - I was TERRIFIED of penises! Not sure why but the idea of a dick made me cringe, so when it came to the idea of putting one in me, in my mouth or even TOUCHING one i turned into a cowering little girl. Now? teehee, not so much :D
Took a while for me to get to the point where'd I'd give a bj, a bit longer to get to the point where I'd swallow - but one does become accustomed to it. I figured it was the power rush, the whole fact that my man's squirming under me >:D mwahaha... teehee
Point that out to your lady friend if she's having trouble!

And yes I know it's been 5 years since someone's posted...