Never heard of such a thing. LOL!

The only thing that I can remotely think of is one of my asian pals who was really insecure about sex. He obsessed about Korean men not being able to please women, and so, he would lose his erection every time he was about to have sex, and then would repeat over and over "It's a Korean problem..."

So if it's an asian dude, maybe just act really into him and make him feel confident?

But really, guys are not that complicated. You can handle it.

Guys are guys depending on their brain, not their skin color.

No, guys are NOT guys. Not all men are alike in their desires etc. There are subtle cultural differences most of which are based upon expectations and how they were taught the genders behave.

But since these differences are for the most part subtle, you can ignore them and focus instead upon learning all about that particular man you're currently enjoying.

Ditto that. Spot on.

Why not talk about the differences among women?

My partner, who is half asian, but physically appears to be mostly asian, says that genetically, asian women are not designed to receive that much pleasure from sex.

She's never orgasmed from penetration before. She's able to get off with oral stimulation to her clit, and that's it. I'd like to be able to give her vaginal orgasms, but she is pretty set on the fact that she just can't have them.

I don't buy that, or rather, I don't want to buy that.

Any experiences with stuff like this?

This is all bull****. Everyone is unique.

I disagree. Different cultures see sex in different ways. Does it matter at the beginning of a relationship? Probably not! But it is a valid point.

The point is that sex begins in the brain and the attitudes they have in their brains regarding sex will affect them profoundly. Asian women are pretty much built the same way as all other women are made since their bodies have to perform the same functions. Etc etc etc. Bodies are very similar but cultural attittudes may not be. You can learn and explore these differences and it may be interesting to you. But the actual mechanics of sex remain the same.

The comparative roles of men and women in different societies are learned behaviours. And women's role is much more submissive in some cultures than others. That would mean that a strong come-on would be a turnoff for the man - something to be expected from a prostitute but not a "good girl." Talk it out.

Ephemera, your experience is quite common in all women. Only a quarter of us reach orgasm through penetration and thrusting. I need more, as does your g/f. That is a difference among women of all types and does not categorize Asians.

Brandeye, she gets off with clitoral stimulation, especially if I go down on her.

I just worry that she'll never be able to experience the multiple orgasms that so many seem to love.

Her clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch after she orgasms.

[quote=Ephemera;194688]Brandeye, she gets off with clitoral stimulation, especially if I go down on her.

I just worry that she'll never be able to experience the multiple orgasms that so many seem to love.

Her clitoris becomes too sensitive to touch after she orgasms.[/quote] stop the clitoral orgasms and work for the others! She has to be 100% comfortable & unihibited.

I'll do that. She does seem to believe that it's anatomically impossible for her, though.

That'll be my new goal, though.

[quote=Ephemera;194706]I'll do that. She does seem to believe that it's anatomically impossible for her, though.

That'll be my new goal, though.[/quote]Try to dispel the myth for her! Make her believe it is anatomically possible! Remember it all happens in our brains!

I know.

We had sex tonight, and she came during penetration, but it was no a vaginal orgasm.

I took EEK's advice and did some body worship (not too long, since we were pressed for time, but a good fifteen minutes) and she was really horny. About two minutes into intercourse, missionary, she came. She didn't have multiple orgasms, and the only reason she got off, I think, is because I had been teasing her by going down on her for only a few seconds at a time before entering her.

So, progress, I suppose.

[quote=Ephemera;194716]I know.

We had sex tonight, and she came during penetration, but it was no a vaginal orgasm.

I took EEK's advice and did some body worship (not too long, since we were pressed for time, but a good fifteen minutes) and she was really horny. About two minutes into intercourse, missionary, she came. She didn't have multiple orgasms, and the only reason she got off, I think, is because I had been teasing her by going down on her for only a few seconds at a time before entering her.

So, progress, I suppose.[/quote]Yes, progress!

:) I have to say each culture I guess have their own way of satisfying a woman, as for me I prefer the white MEN because they please you all over whether you do them or not it don't matter, but as for the younger white GUYS they are differ I have had a past experience with one younger and it was a waste of time. Whatever flows your boat.

Going back to the start of the post, my question would be were these guys actually raised within their cultures, or are they just american offspring that has a family that comes from that culture?

My Korean friend I mentioned earlier was born and raised in Busan, but studies in the United States.