1. i was just wondering what positions really felt amazing to women? i've still never came or orgasmed from any sexual experience including oral... we go for a long time until i get sore and i feel pleasure but i never am able to climax... we've tried the standards like missionary and cowgirl but nothing too intense... any suggestions would be great...
2. what amount of time is too soon to start having sex without a condom after starting birth control?
3. what lube could i use that i might have just laying around my house? i dont have the option of just openly buying sex lube so can i use anything else when i give my b/f a handjob? regular body lotion, etc...?
have you managed to orgasssum from self masturbation? it has been said that around 25% of women cant orgassum at all and many can't orgassum from penile thrusting alone
even with BC i still recomend using a condom, you cann't be too careful
and the lube question, i think that johnsons baby lotion stuff works but be carefull on some soaps and shower gells it will be great till afterwards when it has dried out the skin and then it will hurt a lot >_<
1. Positions are positions; we all have fovourites and we change once in a while. Read Chick Chat, especially on Female Sexual Response. It will answer some of your questions.
2. I recommend to all my patients that they complete on menstrual cycle before dispensing with other birth control. Some of the pill brochues and other doctors say a week after you start. I am conservative and recommend you be as well.
3. Vegetable oils are fine. Check on the baby oil. If it is a mineral oil, you really do not want that in you. You can mix standard cooking oils, I prefer safflower for massages, with aromatic oils (orange, almond, whatever) and they smell good. You can find these in most health food stores. Any vegetable oil works.
Some things work fine on guys, but if you plan on putting them anywhere near yourself...will end up quiet painful. I've found that aloe works great, but because of the alcohol in it, it burns on the female genitals. Baby oil had the same effect. Regular lotions with nice scents work fine too, but if there's any kind of alcohol in anything you should keep them away from yourself;)