I'm new here, so sorry if this has been posted before. I have a couple of questions actually.
1) I have never had sex before, but I know for a fact it shouldn't be over in 5 minutes. How the heck do I hold off ejaculating for 15, 30, 45+ minutes? Or is it normal to ejaculate more than once during sex?
2) After a while I'm sure missionary will get boring. How do we switch positions in the middle of sex? I can't straight out say "This is boring, lets do something else!"
Thanks for all your guys and gals help!
[QUOTE=Quote (shellee @ July 27 2004,12:15)]An hour or so before you have sex you could masturbate and that will also desencitize ( wrong spelling) you and you will last longer.[/QUOTE]
Very good advice there. Sometimes if my guy and I have gone a little while without having sex, the first time back he usually goes pretty fast, but we have found that if I "take care of him" about an hour before hand, he will be able to last longer when we have actual sex later on. The down side to this is though, is that sometimes he will be pretty tired and won't necessarily be up for messing around again so soon.
And by the way, our average time is about 10 minutes. In my opinion, the quality of the sex is better than the duration of the sex. Just my opinion though.
u know u say that uv never had sex before?...well how do u know that it will only last 5 minutes? im not sayin that in a bad way, its just that my bf has the opposite problem...he cant seem to cum at all during sex. but saying that hes the same when we go anything else...well he does cum but after a while...so maybe if u cum quite fast when u masturbate, then that will give u fair idea
have i confused things...sorreeee!
what im sayin tho is ppl always say that u will cum fast during sex, and say go on about that as tho is a common problem, but never really mention anythin about the opposite problem...kinda thing...ill go...
Welcome to the site, I am new here as well.
As soon as you get the urge to ejaculate pull out or stop moving all together. This will buy you some time. An hour or so before you have sex you could masturbate and that will also desencitize ( wrong spelling) you and you will last longer.
When if the missionary position and you start to get bored just aske your partner if she would like to try something else, she just might like the idea.
If you really like this girl you are going to have sex with you should feel comfortable to ask her anything while having intercourse, if not then maybe you shouldn't be having sex with this person.
Just remember to relax and have fun. Don't be nervous experimenting is the best part.