4 and a half month ago I broke up with my ex gf
after a year and a half .since then ive been looking to find a new one I ended up having sex with like 11 girls, ny rules(-:
but seriously I do really want to have a new gf,as far as my sex habits normally I like to have a sexual act like 15 20 times a week and up to say 5 –6 times a night I love providing oral sex more the anything ,I use a method during sex in order to stay erect for like half an hour I go back and forth in my mind from sex to like pictures of war starvation ,dirt etc so I don’t climax to fast,
the thing is I finally met a girl I like totally have
a crush on .she’s smart ,beautiful ,funny ,and very h-----.the problem is I had sex with her twice on the weekend and couldn’t performer in my normal way only once on Friday and twice on Sunday and only for 10 minutes each time and she’s not to much in to receiving oral sex, the thing is im so stressed about kipping her it effects my sexual performance and it doesn’t flow I explained it to her and she was like o.k. with it but still im really stressed ,
im seeing her again tomorrow or on Thursday ,what should I do.
Mon, 12/16/2002 - 23:42
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couldnt perform
i agree with brandye... go get tested, and really, you shoudl tell all girls that you sleep with that youve been with multiple partneers...i mean STD's aren't that uncommon, although some of them can be treated, you still wouldn't want to have one, and neither do the girls you're sleeping with, so really go get tested, i heard somewhere that you should go every two months. and just to give you a reality check of what could happen, in my business law class we "re-enacted" a trial, where this guy, "john" slept with this girl, "jane", and he didn't tell her that he had been sleeping around, so he gets tested a little while later, turns out he has HIV, it's mandatory for john to call all the girls he's slept with, and tell them that they are at risk for having HIV. so he calls jane, she gets tested, and she is HIV positive...she sues him for negligence, for millions of dollars to cover that she had to leave work because her immune system was down, medical expenses (more than you would think) and emotional damage. now you wouldnt want that happening to you would you?
the children of bosnia thank you
for your hours of consideration on their behalf. As an innocent whitness, I can say that your third world sympathies are some of the most incredible I've ever had the priveledge of sharing the company of. rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. good grief, you're amazing.
I pasted part of her e-mail, so well everything worked really good this time (-:
not only that but i mean why would u wanna think of that sh*t while screwing, if u cant last as long as she can then just eat her out i mean how can u like sex that way?
thanks for the advice ,
well as far as s.t.ds I did practice safe sex with condoms
I did how ever provide and receive oral sex ,as far as an STD check up, I just got my general annual check up results, and I am fine,(I did specifically ask for all stds checked)as far as having sex with a lot of girls I calmed down lately, in any case
I am not a sex addicts when it comes to having sex with a lot of partner but I am I guess when it comes to having a lot of sex,the thing is after I broke up with my ex I really wanted to
Have a new one and went threw the wrong scene (bars)I do not want to just have asexual
Relationship with the girl im with now I want a serious relationship, so that is not the issue,
As far as reviling my # of sexual partners I know this girl threw friends for like 4 month already
So she knew about the situation before she sent me a really cute e mail and told me that she liked me ,as far as my erection problem I would appreciate more advice.
Thank You.
Wow my d--- is being discussed on the Internet!!
But seriously, she is spending the weekend in my place again
In general I feel better about the issue I don’t have a problem climaxing to fast its just with her because I had a problem getting it up so when I did I was afraid to loose it and couldn’t use my
Regular bizarre teqnicue, as far as 69 that’s a good idea
Its weird but like we gave each other oral but didn’t do that.
i didn't really get that....was that part of her e-mail?? so im guessing things worked out?
Yaeh it was she stayed at my place Saturday,
Till like Sunday evening i don’t have a computer at home so
I just saw her e-mail now.
Yes I have rocked her world the whole reason i posted here you can see it looking at the beginning of this post, is that normally i was a weird technique of thinking during sex about, wars starvation, diseases, dirt etc, so I can last being hard as long as I want this time it was about the children of Bosnia (i told her of my teqnique last week cause i was nervous around her and didn’t perform to good)
ummm yea, well the whole bosnia thing is just a little strange to me...when a girl is hooking up with a guy, she'es expecting him to be thinking of her...the last thing she wants him to be thinking about is well, things like Bosnia. if this is your way of lasting longer, then it might also be um...beneficial if you go to the lasting longer section on this website
well i never meant to offend you it's just that usually you want to concentrate on sexual things while you're doing sexual things so i don't know...i find it hard to put my mind somewhere else
I smell a little exaggeration here. Accepting what you have said, are you willing to tell her that you have been with a dozen girls in the past half-year? One of the problems of promiscuity is that when the right one (or at least a very desireable one) comes along, we lose resect and faith in ourselves. Perhaps a bit of regret that we spent so much time chasing the worng aspect of a relationship. On the other hand, you may be looking for nothing more than a regular sex partner.
Perhaps you should stop dreaming and give some serious thought to what you really want.
Oh. And do get checked for STDs after all that activity. 9% of the population of English speaking countries are carriers. Count S. Africa and India in there and the figure goes higher.
the erection problem...i heard that guys have trouble getting it up when they are nervous ABOUT having trouble getting it up. maybe you should kind of just let her do what she wants for a little while to see how she likes to do things, then maybe you can just kind of think of other ways that you can easily add in/mix in with that...like...if she wants to go down on you, but you're turned on by going down on her, you can do it 69-ing...and instead of thinking those thoughts instead of climaxing...theres a way to control it...i actually think there's a section on this website about coming too early...maybe you can read that too.
[QUOTE=Quote (guycr @ Dec. 23 2002,07:02)]"the children of bosnia thank you for your hours of consideration on their behalf ... rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. good grief, you're amazing."
I pasted part of her e-mail, so well everything worked really good this time (-:[/QUOTE]
Good grief ... what's that all about? ... I've heard of 'making the earth move", but "the children of bosnia thank you"?. You must have REALLY rocked her world!
Well she has a very high sex drive, and it doesn’t bother her
Why are you all so conservative?
Well,
im simply used to this teqnice actually i read somewhere lately that porn actors use it(in an interview with Ron jermie)
She is open minded and does not mind it, I like things in my life even good and fun ones
To be some what dark so
it works ,were together for a month already ,she so cute.
Ive used that technique to last longer during sex but not blowjows or anything. it works.i swear some girls use it too..
Hmm... I think you really care about this one. You see when you are with people a lot and often such as before it is easier cuz you were just doing it. This one makes you nervous so i would try to relax and let her know most importantly how you feel about her and that you are having a hard time.