Hey everyone, :p , I'm a newcomer to this board so forgive me if this thread has already been done. I'm pretty new to giving blow jobs and have never seemed to give a successful one to my boyfriend of almost a year and a half due to my lame gag reflexes. I'm very relaxed as I start off giving the bj but it seems as always whenever I get his penis halfway into my mouth the gagging begins. Some people have recommended chewing gum or sucking on candy in the side of my mouth to try and control it; yet It's not worked. So I was wondering if any of you more experienced BJ givers could help me out and I'd be greatly appreciated.
(This goes for deep throating too. I'd really love to give my boyfriend the pleasure he deserves without having to stop after only a few seconds due to gagging.)
Wed, 06/14/2006 - 23:54
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Controlling Gag Reflexes
Well I know if I don't post this, a few seconds laters omeone else will, so I might as well give you an answer sooner. there are lots of tips around the board that al say that to pleasure a man you don't need to deep throat or even put it very far into your mouth. it is more about the use of your tongue and hand stimulate the sensitive areas on the penis. I am sorry that you are unfortunate enough to have a gag reflex that you say won't let you get anything half way into your mouth. My male friend can hit that dangly thin in the back of his throat and not gag, I am sure he has no use for it if you are willing to trade
haha. Trade.
Well, Ryouko is right. Even though deep throating does feel good to a man, some things feel just as good if not better. Check around the board for tips. I also have a bit of a reflex, though it usually doesnt bother me because I've gotten better at controlling it. Relax your throat and take it slow. If you start to gag, pull back and try again later. But, remember you cant stimulate with your tounge while it's waaay back in your throat. (Your talented if you can...I cant.) And alot of men want more tounge stimulation.
Thank you both for the advice. I'll look around the site and see what all I can find. There's a lot of interesting stuff here!