I was wondering if there are any females out there just like me.....
I am 27 years old, been with my bf for nearly 18 months. They say that women hit their sexual peak at 35, if so, God help me! lol
My boyfriend is the only man that has given me orgasms, with his tongue and with with his fingers. Never through penetration, maybe I am one of those women that cannot come through that method. That does not bother me because the other ways he makes me come is very intense and intimate because his mouth and hands are on show all the time and I just have to look at them when we are in public and I get turned on.. because of what they can do for me!
I was in a sexless relationship before him, that lasted 5 years and I would regularly look at porn to 'get myself off' my ex was repulsed at the fact of going down on me, I had a crisis in confidence with him and I got jealous when I looked at porn because the girls looked like they were having a whale of a time, even though they were acting!
I regularly look at porn to get ideas and to 'sort myself out' with my boyfriend now, he loves the fact that I look at porn because I will text him telling him that I had a couple of orgasms from it and that he is in for it when he gets back.
Sex is constantly on my mind and I cannot get enough of it, I even write sex diary and get him to read it and he will get turned on by it. I am not the sort to sleep around, I am just so lucky to have someone who can keep up with me.
He is very attentive and he will go down on me and will not stop until I come. We can have sex a couple of times a day if we have the time. He likes to give me little 'tasters' and go down on me and I will suprise him by giving him head in the middle of the day.
I always ask him if there is anything he wants to try or if he is satisfied and he is more than satisfied, he likes me to suck and wank him off in public (discreetly of course) he likes seedy texts and emails, stolen passionate kisses and promises of what we will get up to later.
I usually send him sexy texts and emails while I am at work (I use code names for sex.... we call it 'conversations') and that keeps me on my toes while I am at work. We give pet names to our private names as well ;)
I have no idea why I am constantly horny or so highly sexed, maybe because I was a late stater, I lost my virginity when I was 17 but regularly masturbated when I was younger and even the sexy problem pages would trigger me off! I do believe in the stars, I am an Aries and he is a Leo.. both highly sexed etc.
When we do have sex, I instantly say afterwards that I want more.
Sometimes, if I have not had sex for a while, my pussy will really hurt (in a good way) and I have no idea why.
I ask my bf if he will ever get bored of sex, he said he doubt he ever will, when he was younger, he was sexually aware and wanted it but had no confidence, he lost his virginity at 19. He is 27 now too.
He always gropes me and when he is in someone's company, like his mother's he will look at me and give me the "tongue sign" and I absolutely love it because I know what will be waiting for me when he gets me back home.
I do record our sexual encounters and I recorded the first time we had sex, I recorded the sound, not the actual visuals, the reason for that is because I thought we could use our imagination when we listened back to it. Trust me, it is very exciting.
I fancy the pants of my boyfriend, I have always been attacted to white men, I have dated black men in the past only because I always thought that white men did not mix with other races, little did I know, that was not necessarily the case! He has gorgeouse green eyes and he is very handsome. To me he looks like Hugh Jackman but with long hair. I asked him who he thinks I look like, he thinks I look like a cross between Kelis and Beyonce!
I find it such a turn on that we are having interaccial sex, I find it electric! We do talk dirty to eachother in the bedroom and it does get racial, but we find it more of a turn on, he will tell me to "f*ck him for my freedom" I will call him a white this and he will call me a black that! He tends to say "You like me white cock dont you?" I absolutely love the filthy talk, it really gets me going!
So, what are your thoughts, are you in a similar situation as me? Are you a bit of a nymph and or insatiable?
Wow, you're super lucky to have such an amazing boyfriend!
I'm also constantly horny (I swear I have to have one orgasm or more per day to continue living, lol!) but maybe that's because I'm younger, and not so experienced as you are. But that doesn't mean that seeing a hot guy or a guy I've messed with doesn't get me going :p
I also love dirty talk... I'm a very dominant person in my "public" life, and so I love being dominated by guys in a more "private" manner... And one of the things that drive's me up the fuckin wall is dirty talk. I don't give up control or allow guys to dominate me... they have to -take- that (not rape, it's hard to explain, but yeah, anyway), and any guy that can do that (only two, currently) can call me -anything- in bed, and I'll go nuts. Whether he calls me a slut, whore, bitch, etc etc it seriously drives me crazy!
And I'm glad you like porn. Porn isn't just for men!!! Some of us women like it toooooo! I like porn (as you might have guessed) and think that it's weird if people don't... It's people fucking. If you're going to be having sex and you can't even watch it, you have a problem.
Anyway! I'll shut up now, and let you go and enjoy your boyfriend ^_~
[QUOTE=Kilia;258263] I like porn (as you might have guessed) and think that it's weird if people don't... It's people fucking. If you're going to be having sex and you can't even watch it, you have a problem.
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Why is it weird if people don't like porn?
And what problem does one have if they can't watch porn???
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I'm still a virgin, many years later. [/QUOTE]
hmm This statement in another thread doesn't quite coincide with this post...
Agreed, Nutty, with both of your points.
Women do not 'hit their sexual peak' at 35. NOPE! Menopause is the kick-off of her sexual peak - when she no longer has to worry about conception. She goes from being a 'family sedan' to a 'sportscar'. LADIES, START YOUR ENGINES! and Gentlemen - watch your backs. *evil grin*
I am reasonably older, almost twice, than you and I regard twelve men as an 'appetizer'. Turning men into quivering puddles of protoplasm is my favorite hobby.
BTW - I find pornography - boooring!
No, I am not insatiable - just a very fun-loving and generous woman with more energy than a nuclear power station.
EEK You are my Idol :D
just the thought of interracial sex is a turn on for me my ex Bf was white and am a black women it was something about the visual of us together would make me cream myself smh oh those were the times ;) sometimes it makes me what to call him up for a late night booty cal lol
lol me n my bf love to watch prono n just get ideas lol we watch it together n i will like stoke his pants while hes watching it n he will b rock hard n would start to cum all over his pants lolits amazing!
I have only been with my man sexually for a couple of months but have known him personally for nearly 10 yrs.I never thought he was my type but since i decided to divorce my husband (been separated 9yrs)after he told me that he has wanted to f*ck me for the past year i have been horny for him ever since.I only have to think about what i want him to do to me and i come,i have never masturbated myself as much as i do now.I love it when he talks dirty to me especially phone sex and filthy texts,i send them to him too.I have never had as many orgasms before as i do when i am with him.I've never really got down and dirty with porn but my man has asked me if i will watch it with him,i think i will try it after reading some of the messages here.I think i might really enjoy it
but what about what YOU want to do to HIM?
don't make him do ALL of the work
i am kinda horny mostg the time lol i am the same way my bf loves to finger n suck me and all that fun stuff lol n when i look at his pants or hands i get so horny cuz i no that later when we r alone that they will b in good use lol n he loves it expecaly when we r out in public
It's not exactly that I can't watch sex, but that porn isn't sex, just acting. Look at the photos on line; men with half-flaccid cocks, pretending to fuck bored women who don't feel a thing. I don't think you've "got a problem" if you need porn but I do think you're being fooled. Making judgments on people with different tastes isn't a good idea.
Hello everyone I'm a male and of coarse like most guys I'm horny but not the type to sleep around or want all the pleasure for myself but I was just thinking that this week, I was thinking to myself and ask myself why am I so horny???? Like all the time!! I love sex and everything to do with it !! I go down on my gf all the time and if I could I would go for hrs because I love it and I know she loves receiving it. But why is it when a guy watches porn he is a pervert but when a woman watches it it's the sexiest thing ever!!! Like I respect woman and I find each and everyone of them beautiful but is it bad or wrong for a guy to watch porn or think about sex all the time?? I just don't like to be put in a catagory that men just want a nut!!! I think there are men like me who love and enjoy the beauty of sex.... And to all u ladies your bf or partners are very lucky :-)
Yep, constantly horny. You're not alone, I'm the HORNIEST man in the world. I can promise anyone that. When I wake up in the morning the first thing I think about is sex. It's because I hardly ever have it to begin with.
How can a woman be horny? On the horn (England) or horny (USA) obviously refers to an erect cock. Come on girls, let's be independent - we don't have to copy the men to show we're equal. We're equal but different. My favourite is lusty, but you choose your own.
> horny (USA) obviously refers to an erect cock.
Yes, only in part. Being "horny" actually means being ready for and longing for sexual release, be it a Quicky, FWB, a loving encounter, whatever.
We use frisky or horny interchangeably at my house.
I kind of go in spurts. There are stages where it doesn't even occur to me, and then there are times where we'll play one night and then I'm frisky for a week straight or more.
I never watch porn. Can't watch other people, and don't need to see cocks other than the one I get to play with or breasts other than mine.