Hey, I'm 20 years old and I've lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 5 or 6 months ago, so I'm pretty new at the whold idea of having sex. One major problem we have during sex is that his penis slips out a lot, which kind of kills the flow of what we're doing. I mean I know that it's a process and things happen, especially with all the natural movement of sex, but I was just wondering if anyone had any sort of tips that could maybe help that situation, or is it pretty much just rhythm and practice? Thanks.
Sun, 08/27/2006 - 16:43
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Constant slipping out during sex.
tell him to stop goin so far out!!! is he new to sex too?
Yup, it is up to him to shorten the stroke. Certainly he can feel when his penis is about to exit. He need to have some corner of his brain not consumed with bliss to monitor his movements.
Try different positions.
In my humble experience, its not neccessarily just him to blame so to speak... I know a lot of women get pretty wild with their hips, making it really hard for the guy to keep it in, let alone to keep it going... If this is the case, you guys need to learn to work in sync...
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]Yup, it is up to him to shorten the stroke.[/QUOTE]
not necessarily, depeding on positions. if the female is on top then it is more of her role with the grinding out too far as from on bottom the male can not really do too much about it.
It is a thing that will fix itself over time though. practise makes perfect.
but no practice is good practice unless it is safe practice