I hate having to stop what were doing to put on a condom, somtimes its not as big deal but often it is. Its simply annoying cuz it ruins the moment for me, like saying or blurbing out something inrelevant to what we're doing (sex) i.e. "whats wrong?" or even worst, "what?!" Sometimes if we were to stop, my erection would go down and it for some reason be harder than usual to get it back, I was thinking that losing it probly makes me nervious or something. Other than having it nerby and ready to go and being on BC, what could we do?
Fri, 11/18/2005 - 02:37
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Condoms Ruin The Moment
[QUOTE=Quote (Morgandy @ Nov. 17 2005,22:01)]Sounds like you're making the moment more intense than it really has to be.
Laugh it off, make a joke about it. [/QUOTE]
I suppose your right about that. And I usually try not to make moments as intense, just be cool and relax. When it comes to sex, I guess I forgot about not being so nervious and intense. I'm usually the one telling people to relax and joke about it.
Thanks
In my condom days, I preferred putting it on him. It was then part of the play and I knew it was on correctly and rolled all the way against his body to prevent it rolling up inside me.
Evidently may partners liked it. A few times the condom was full before it get into me.
[QUOTE=Quote (STKMikeCampo @ Nov. 17 2005,21:37)]I hate having to stop what were doing to put on a condom, somtimes its not as big deal but often it is. Its simply annoying cuz it ruins the moment for me, like saying or blurbing out something inrelevant to what we're doing (sex) i.e. "whats wrong?" or even worst, "what?!" Sometimes if we were to stop, my erection would go down and it for some reason be harder than usual to get it back, I was thinking that losing it probly makes me nervious or something. Other than having it nerby and ready to go and being on BC, what could we do?[/QUOTE]
Yeah its ruins the moment i have same thing!!!
Sounds like you're making the moment more intense than it really has to be.
Laugh it off, make a joke about it. Sometimes if I saw my guy having trouble, I'd offer a hand and make a show of it (maybe using my other hand to do other things), integrating it into foreplay.
The other night in the heat of the moment, I couldn't get my bra off.
I struggled and struggled and struggled, until he had to snap it for me. It just made for funny pillow talk afterwards, hehe.
When that happened to my boyfriend, we kinda laughed it off and then got back to things. I got on my knees and gave him a BJ to get him nice and hard again, then he slipped the condom on. But yeah, it deffinitly can ruin things!!! I've had my share of him losing it when trying to get the condom on. Suppose I should learn to put it on with my mouth... maybe that would help?.... lol.
shadowy