Hello all.
I'm not talking about condoms with chemicals that numb the guy (I've tried a few and they don't work very well). I was wondering what the general consensus is regarding thick condoms. Which brand name and type specifically is so thick that it removes a lot of the feeling for the guy (I don't mind).
My girlfriend and I used to be able to go for marathon sessions before I came, but recently I've been coming a lot quicker, often only 5 minutes or so in if we go fast. I assume my problem is a subconscious thing, and I'm trying to deal with it...in the meantime, is there anything else that could naturally help delay my orgasm (no pills or chemicals). Thicker condoms are one idea...I'm open to others.
Oh, and we currently use either Trojan Her Pleasure condoms or Durex Performax condoms (and, oddly enough, I come sooner in the Performax condoms that have the chemical that is supposed to numb the guy). We can always go longer the second time, after I've orgasmed, but I'd like the first time to last longer too. Oh, and also, the problem is not age or anything...we're both only 22. Its also not that I've lost interest in her...I'm as attracted to her as I've ever been.
Thanks for any advice.
I think durex did "performa" (or something like that) designed to help a guy go the distance
Hi.....here are a few links you should check out that may be very helpful!
http://www.condomania.com/
http://www.condomdepot.com/
I guess i'm puzzled by why all of a sudden you're cumming in 5 minutes? Did you change anything in your lovemaking?
I mean, if u were f***ing for an hour before, what changed?
maybe do a google search for thicker ones and desensitizing creams. u might come up with something...but i am also not very knowledgable on this subject.
Thanks for responding, Demonbuttercup. I appreciate it.
Sorry Houston
I am not very knowledgable about condoms, my b/f and I don't use them.
Also, I would have suggested the "lasting performance" kind but as you've stated those don't help either..
Hopefully someone will have an answer to your question.
I've posted two topics, and have received next to no responses (only 1 in the other topic, located in "Pleasing Her"). I can't believe that there is no one out there who doesn't know of anything they can recommend. Come on, folks. I thought this site was about sharing info and helping people out.
Where's the love?
All I'm looking for is recommendations on good, thick condoms that reduce sensation for the guy. Someone must know of some.
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I went to the trojan condom website to see if they do wholesale. I didnt realize that they had such a wide array of condoms - wow! They didnt but they had an online retailer who they sale to: http://www.condomprotection.com
Thankfully, they do wholesale and they have a vast selection of condoms. condomprotection.com also offers a catalogue for wholesale, so i know where to go once everything is set to go. the prices are really good from what i saw as well.
wish me luck.
Alan
I have the se same problem and im 25 here is what i found out and about try one is cock rings that is suppost to delay and the other is a penis extension which can be purchased at any local sex shop or online. its a whole sleeve that covers your penis and adds 1.5 to 3 inches which im sure she wont mind that. let me know hope this helps
[QUOTE=jlhits98;154200]I have the se same problem and im 25 here is what i found out and about try one is cock rings that is suppost to delay and the other is a penis extension which can be purchased at any local sex shop or online. its a whole sleeve that covers your penis and adds 1.5 to 3 inches which im sure she wont mind that. let me know hope this helps[/QUOTE]
Right, I was going to say about penis extention. You can use as thin as this one - http://www.xtoysusa.com/1782xusxa.htm , with added tickers for her pleasure. Or you can use as thick as this one - http://www.xtoysusa.com/4378xusxa.htm , with extra inches. They both should reduce your sensitivity and let you run much longer than 5 min. Good luck!
I would suggest looking into Cockrings and alike. They are suppose to increase a length of time before a guy "Reaches that moment".