I've been with my boyfriend about 2 and a half months, and we shared our first times on Near Year's Eve. We've used condoms every time thus far, but I don't think he enjoys that much. He thinks that since I'm on birth control pills, and neither of us have any STDs, there's really no need for them. However, I'm absolutely terrified of having his cum in me... it just seems so gross to even think about. I also enjoy eating myself out when by myself, and I'm thinking that would completely ruin it. Is there any kind of way to reach a compromise here? And if it does happen somehow that I get his man-juice in me, accidentally or on purpose, is there any way of getting it out efficientally and soon afterwards? Or do I have to tough out the grossness until I shower, and eventually just get used to it?
Thanks ahead of time for any advice! :p
No man likes wearing condoms and you both say you have no STDs but MOST people DO NOT know they have STDs or not.
Sorry, dear - but BOTH of you should bear the burden of protection - so you use BCPs and he uses condoms. It isn't just about disease and birth control - it is also about FAIR IS FAIR.
[QUOTE=Songbird;163800] I also enjoy eating myself out when by myself, and I'm thinking that would completely ruin it. Is there any kind of way to reach a compromise here? And if it does happen somehow that I get his man-juice in me, accidentally or on purpose, is there any way of getting it out efficientally and soon afterwards? Or do I have to tough out the grossness until I shower, and eventually just get used to it?
Thanks ahead of time for any advice! :p[/QUOTE]
Wow! and I thought only dogs could do that :P
JK, it does take some getting used to... you do feel "drippy" for a bit, I usually have to put on a pantyliner or something.. otherwise you mess your panties.
He could always pull out and cum like on your stomach or something? or is that worse?
You never HAVE to get used to something... you could always try it a few times... and it could not be that bad... or even worse than you imagined... either way... thats you and he'll need to understand that.
Thanks, Demon, that got my attention, too. And, Song, Evil gives you good advice.
You like to eat yourself out?
My god! That would be so hot to see.
Thank you, Brandye.