, well me and my GF have been together about a month and 1/2 and we've talked about intercourse, but the thing is shes really paranoid about condoms not being safe enough.
Now shes not on the pill, yet because I leave at the end of this month and we just talked about it like this past week and no point of her starting till I get back.
Im really hoping I can do the deed with her before I leave because Ill be gone 2 months, and well Im a virgin and Im quite curious.
ANYWAYS... yea, is there anyway I can make her feel safer about just a condom? And plus I got another question.
If I had a bit of my fluids on my hand and then wiped it off with a towel then proceeded to fingering, are the chances still there that she could get pregnant? Just wondering cause sometimes she does me 1st then I do her and well there might be trace amounts of my men on me.
[QUOTE=Quote (STKMikeCampo @ Aug. 14 2005,09:05)]Should spermicidal foam be near the condoms at stores cuz i'm having trouble finding some.[/QUOTE]
Yes, it should be.
I know it is in most drug stores and places like Wal-mart. In supermarkets (like Kroger) you'll find it in a cabinet near the pharmacy with the condoms.
Should spermicidal foam be near the condoms at stores cuz i'm having trouble finding some.
I am in Scotland. I do not know how your stores are laid out. The most common places would either be with the condoms or with feminine hygiene. Your g/f should know.
You will find many threads here that emphasize condoms plus spermicide - jelly, film, suppository, foam - in her vagina. Using the two together gives about the same protection as being on the pill. That is, if 100 women use this for a year, three will become pregnant.
Using either condoms alone or spermicide alone will yield about fifteen pregnancies.
There is no sure safety except abstinence.
Hi FriendlyGiant,
Well, condoms aren't 100% effective. There is still a small chance of negative consequences... 2-3%. To increase the effectiveness, make sure you use a waterbased lube and a spermicidal gel or foam- NOT just condoms with spermicide on them.
As for your second question... just to be on the safe side, you should always do a wash with warm water and soap after you orgasm. This protects against possible STDs- yes, I know you are a virgin, but better to be in the habit- as well as possible pregnancy.