Still wear one man. You can't rely on anything and if having a baby is something that CANT happen then condom FOR SURE. If having a baby would be a problem but wouldn't throw your life away and you're ready to accept the consequence, dont. Well you can still be 'safe' if you don't wear a condom but it's safer to pull out... still not safest. Just wait for a few opinions and then think about it yourself.
Well, this is an interesting topic, at least I think so hehe.
My girlfriend says I don't have to wear a condom. And I really don't want to. But before you go assuming I'm some kind of moron it's not like I'm not planning to use any protection besides her pill (She gets the shot too). We're just planning to use spermacide in additon to her pill. My cousin has used it and he said it works very well, plus I will continue my research on it.
And for the issue of STD's:
1) I trust me girlfriend 100%, plus she's only had sex with one guy. And before you go saying well that guy could have had something, look at option 2.
2) She's already been tested, and was negative.
In the end, if she wants me to wear one, I will. But she says no.
Well, if the female partner is on oral contraception (or depo-provera or the shot), you do have a 95-99% certainty of NOT getting pregnant! So, as long as you're willing to take that chance (and you are both monogamaous) you should feel comfortable having sex without a condom.
After all, thats something that comes along with the "pill"
Again, just know that if you DO get pregnant...you have to take responsibility!
I've been whit my g/f for almost 3 yrs now, she is on the pill right now and before of that with the "shot" (changed to the pill, because it was causing her some problems). So far, they work fine, and we almost never used a condom (some times we use it, but just for the fun of it :P), but i will recomend to all the young people the use of condoms because it will prevent you from getting an STD, something the pill can't do. So, be safe and have fun .
hi all...this would be my first post and i was just flicking through and i saw this and i just wanted to give my input, useful or not. i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 and a half years, she was on the pill (contraceptive injection) for the first year of our relationship and it made the relationship more relaxed, there was no worry of having to carry a condom around with you. it is a good idea to use a condom until both of you are sure that you are clear of all std's.
I, when i have sex we have already agreed on it, that you wear a condom too cuz that is unfair if one person is making an effort so should the other. It is only fair and plus it is a lot safer.
As we all know their is still a chance of pregnancy even if the female is on the pill so it's a hell of a lot safer to just use a condom. I mean come on they aren't that bad, and they do mean you can last longer
Still wear one man. You can't rely on anything and if having a baby is something that CANT happen then condom FOR SURE. If having a baby would be a problem but wouldn't throw your life away and you're ready to accept the consequence, dont. Well you can still be 'safe' if you don't wear a condom but it's safer to pull out... still not safest. Just wait for a few opinions and then think about it yourself.
Drew
Well, this is an interesting topic, at least I think so hehe.
My girlfriend says I don't have to wear a condom. And I really don't want to. But before you go assuming I'm some kind of moron it's not like I'm not planning to use any protection besides her pill (She gets the shot too). We're just planning to use spermacide in additon to her pill. My cousin has used it and he said it works very well, plus I will continue my research on it.
And for the issue of STD's:
1) I trust me girlfriend 100%, plus she's only had sex with one guy. And before you go saying well that guy could have had something, look at option 2.
2) She's already been tested, and was negative.
In the end, if she wants me to wear one, I will. But she says no.
Well, if the female partner is on oral contraception (or depo-provera or the shot), you do have a 95-99% certainty of NOT getting pregnant! So, as long as you're willing to take that chance (and you are both monogamaous) you should feel comfortable having sex without a condom.
After all, thats something that comes along with the "pill"
Again, just know that if you DO get pregnant...you have to take responsibility!
[QUOTE=Quote (Rawbob @ July 11 2003,06:29)]Again, just know that if you DO get pregnant...you have to take responsibility![/QUOTE]
Always.
I've been whit my g/f for almost 3 yrs now, she is on the pill right now and before of that with the "shot" (changed to the pill, because it was causing her some problems). So far, they work fine, and we almost never used a condom (some times we use it, but just for the fun of it :P), but i will recomend to all the young people the use of condoms because it will prevent you from getting an STD, something the pill can't do. So, be safe and have fun
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hi all...this would be my first post and i was just flicking through and i saw this and i just wanted to give my input, useful or not. i have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 and a half years, she was on the pill (contraceptive injection) for the first year of our relationship and it made the relationship more relaxed, there was no worry of having to carry a condom around with you. it is a good idea to use a condom until both of you are sure that you are clear of all std's.
There is no condom vs no comdom, if you dont want to have babies.
Always wear one.
Please.
Live life.
Good luck.
I, when i have sex we have already agreed on it, that you wear a condom too cuz that is unfair if one person is making an effort so should the other. It is only fair and plus it is a lot safer.
As we all know their is still a chance of pregnancy even if the female is on the pill so it's a hell of a lot safer to just use a condom. I mean come on they aren't that bad, and they do mean you can last longer