so i have been invovled in sexual acts but not sexual intercourse
so i have to ask this question no matter how dumb it sounds - when exactly during this act does the male put on the condom?
right before intercourse or whenever he's hard?
Tue, 03/06/2007 - 00:17
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condom time
As soon as it is visible! That thing can go off any time and you do not want to risk getting it all over your privates.
thank you! :)
I would say just put it on before you are about to start intercourse. Theres really no need to put a condom on "as soon as its visible". Unless you are with a guy who has no experience and has absolutely no ability to contain himself. Putting a condom on as soon as the penis comes out can really put a damper on foreplay, such as oral sex, stroking. You should enjoy sex, in todays culture many adults just want you to completly wrap yourself in plastic.
well we're both virgins and 16 so i'm alot more focused on not getting pregnant as opposed to having the best sex of my life
and being that we're both virgins - he doesn't have experience enough to control himself in that situation
MCS:
Keep up w/the BCP's and use a condom; just be certain to put it on when there is any chance of him coming in contact w/your genitals. With time you will both get better at using them...plus it may help him last longer.
thanks sera - you helped alot! :)
i'm trying to be as responsible about this as possible so i can possibly enjoy it a little bit (crazy idea enjoying your first time huh? lol)
Some do enjoy it, the biggest thing is to relax, you have all the bases covered for BC (one of you should already have practiced how to get the condom on)...so not much to worry about. Any questions, you know where to find us!!! :)
yeah - i told him he'd have to wear one and we had that whle talk and he said he's practticed ..... so now i jus have to chill out haha