Well, I'm sure I'm not the first person this has happened to, but I (and my gf) found it rather amusing. As the title suggests, the condom slipped off while we were having sex. When I noticed, I got off and searched around for the condom. As I suspected, it wasn't on the bed, it was inside her. It was quite a way in too, I could only just reach the top of it with my middle finger when I went searching, and it took me a while to get it out. We both found it funny.
But it made me wonder, if it happened again but I couldn't reach it with my fingers... What would you do?:confused:
[QUOTE=arutha;217992]Well, I'm sure I'm not the first person this has happened to, but I (and my gf) found it rather amusing. As the title suggests, the condom slipped off while we were having sex. When I noticed, I got off and searched around for the condom. As I suspected, it wasn't on the bed, it was inside her. It was quite a way in too, I could only just reach the top of it with my middle finger when I went searching, and it took me a while to get it out. We both found it funny.
But it made me wonder, if it happened again but I couldn't reach it with my fingers... What would you do?:confused:[/QUOTE]
I don't think it can go that far so you can't reach it, I'll be more worried about your gf getting pregnant, if the comdom gets stuck up there you can alwasy go to the ER and they will get it out soon, but if she gets pregnant, no ER is going to be able to help you :D
I agree. You find having your means of protection slipping off amusing? I wonder why even bother with them. If you are using them as created for protection and you do not want to become an unwed father, then your emotions rightfully should be somewhere between worried and frantic, and, apologetic since it is the woman who actually bears the consequences.
Condoms come in small, Medium, and, LARGE sizes. I recommend you buy a package of each and begin using those that fit correctly.
I've only ever seen standard sizes in the places I've looked, and they fit but are a bit tight. Sometimes give me a ring if I wear them too long.
I'm probably not as cautious as I should be, but I know the chances of her getting pregnant the day after her period finished when I didn't cum are very very small. It had already happened, why be worried and panic when there is nothing you can do to change what happened? I'll start worrying if she misses a period. Shes hopefully going to get implanon soon anyway.
You can add vaginal spermicide to her vagina before entering. Vaginal jelly plus a condom is nearly as effective as the pill and helps in these situations.
A friend of mine has had this same problem. Latex causes micro-abrasions and can also cause some women to lose their natural lubrication as a result. This means high friction thrusting which I would guess is a culprit in the condom coming off. Brandye's advice for spermicide is a good one. I would also put a dab of astroglide on the condom, too - just before insertion.
My girlfriend and I had the same problem with dry condoms. They didn't come off but they were painful after a while for her. We used astroglide and that worked really well. We don't have the problem anymore now that she uses the nuva ring. Which I also highly recommend.
there are things to clean out the puss, but why are you not finding the preg part searosuly?
[quote=Me]I know the chances of her getting pregnant the day after her period finished when I didn't cum are very very small. It had already happened, why be worried and panic when there is nothing you can do to change what happened? I'll start worrying if she misses a period[/quote]
Thats why.
Anyway, she has had a period since then so all is fine and got implanon in her arm so all is even more fine. The doctor said it was the most effective and convenient form of contraception available.