Well, i have come to understand im above average ( 7inches and 5 around ) but when i use Trojan Ultra Pleasures, the condom dosnt roll all the way down and theres a lot of extra latex at the top that crumples up.
IF assuming im average/above average..i should believe that condoms are made for the average sized man.
hwo come these are too big????
i would also like to add...i have been using these since ive only had sex twice. and i ONCE tried lifestyles condoms and it was tight (not too tight) and rolled down nicely. but it was also a bit old and was in my wallet for a while and has been hidden under a speaker for a few months.
(it wasnt past the expiry date)


If that one brand doesn't fit well, don't buy it... just try several types to see what fits you best. I am not sure how manufactuers come up w/ the sizes...but maybe it's like jeans, lol.
Like in one brand of jeans, they'll fit perfect...you buy that size in another brand and it's too big/small... I don't know... just an observation lol ;)
Plus, even if the condom hasn't "expired"... don't use it unless it's been in favorable conditions.
I don't think keeping them in your wallet is the best place...and extreme hot/cold...like your car...isn't a good place either.
well i just take them from my brother cause im kinda broke to go get any, haha.
do you think the lifestyles ones are a good fit because the fact its been in a wallet or under a speaker for some months?
or do you think it could just be the brand?
The brand.
I was stating that fact..that you shouldn't use ones that have been in your wallet for a long time or just lying around in conditions that you aren't really sure of.
Plus... I think you can go to local health clinics...planned parenthoods..and get free/cheap condoms.
If you cannot afford condoms and your partner cannot afford the vaginal spermicide she heeds, you cannot afford to be screwing. Certainly not with old and degenerated latex.
[QUOTE=Brandye;178374]If you cannot afford condoms and your partner cannot afford the vaginal spermicide she heeds, you cannot afford to be screwing. Certainly not with old and degenerated latex.[/QUOTE]
Just because i do not have a job at the moment, and neither does she have anything to do with our sexual life. We both have families who would support us all the way if we had a child, but also we are not stupid and I like to go by the motto 'it wont happen to me'.
I spend between $500 and $1000 a year for her, and within the last week we started having sex...by the time im broke.
Tnx buttercup for answering my question though.
=)
dont get me wrong brandye, its not that do not like your answer.
well, okay. it is that.
I'm yet to go to a forum like this, or with sex as one of the topics, and seeing everybody avoiding the question and telling the person what he/she shouldnt be doing.
if i say im 13 and want to know where to get condoms, i do not expect to get an answer saying : "I think you are too young for sex". I expect to get the answer for my question. If i wanted to know what you thought about me having sex when im 13 i would have asked.
Thank you otherwise for taking your time and telling me that, Brandye =]
(btw im 18,not 13):P
Sorry, blueman, but every week I am faced with pregnancies that cannot be afforded and occurred because no one could afford to prevent them. My answer is given with hope of keeping your g/f out of my surgery.
[QUOTE=Brandye;178411]Sorry, blueman, but every week I am faced with pregnancies that cannot be afforded and occurred because no one could afford to prevent them. My answer is given with hope of keeping your g/f out of my surgery.[/QUOTE]
I understand what you mean. But how many of those people came to a site like this to learn about what they are doing and learn how to do things properly?
I have researched. I know not to put condoms in wallets. I know to keep the condoms in good temperature, i know not to use condoms too big cause they can slip off,i know not to use them too small because they can rip.
I appreciate the fact you are just trying to help me, but i can safely bet that most of the people who post on this site are here to learn more about sex, not about what they should not be doing.
Sorry but BRANDYE is 101% correct..if you can't afford to PAY...you can't afford to PLAY!!!!!!!!!..get a job or get over it!..spend more time with the Palmer Sisters! you can have all kinds of pleasurable sex with a partner without penetration!
You can go to any Walmart store and get a box of 36 condoms for less than $10. If you know that it's wrong to use a condom that has been in extreme conditions, then don't. You say that you know this, but you aren't acting like it. You are supposed to have extra room at the head of a condom, it's there to collect the cum. And if you say some really stupid sh*t like, "do you think the lifestyles ones are a good fit because the fact its been in a wallet or under a speaker for some months?" you are going to catch hell, and rightfully so. One last thing, don't depend on your families to take care of your potential baby, it's not their fault that you are using condoms that you keep in your wallet, with expired expiration dates.