Been with this girl for awhile now, we recently decided to try sex "been oral for about 2 months now". My problem is this.. the condom's i've been trying desensitize me too much. I get in for a minute or two but i cant feel much.. which then proceeds for me to lose my erection. Shes very small too,so its not like thats the issue either. I want to be able to have sex with her but is there a better condom i could try that would help me with this issue? I've tried masturbating with one on as well, and like, i cant feel any sort of touching, only if im really rough with it. "things feel totally sensitive without one on" Some tips would be great about how to go about this guys.
Thu, 01/13/2005 - 04:14
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Condom help?
[QUOTE=Quote (Maestro @ Jan. 27 2005,07:26)]Personally I recommend Trojan-ENZ lubricated. Not only are they more comfortable, but also they are thinner, so you can feel more...[/QUOTE]
I agree, thats what I use as well. I have found they fit better than other condoms I have tried as well.
Personally I recommend Trojan-ENZ lubricated. Not only are they more comfortable, but also they are thinner, so you can feel more. I would also discourage buying Trojan Spermicidal Lubricated condoms. The spermicide actually caused me to have an allergic reaction. Quite painful, definately something to consider
Well I'm glad you two are able to laugh about it and not get embarassed or frustrated. That's a sign of a healthy relationship
Now about the condoms... When this happened to me and the guy I first had sex with, we switched to Trojan Ulrta Thin condoms, and those worked well for us. However I've heard that some other brands may feel better, although I unfortunately don't remember what they were...
So, you have a great idea about trying out a variety. Could prove to be a lot of fun!
hmm i'd find jsut a different brand of condoms..or different style, unless your completely comfortable with the female condom.. and stuff, yeah, but.. if you get a new partner, before your tested.. please dont use them, use normal male condoms
yeah this is both of ours first times, and i went out and purchased a few different types, to see what works. shes totally comfortable with it, and i think we laughed more than anything else while we were trying to figure it out. if anyone has any specific condoms that they find work best, any information would be great
I am glad that Oeron mentioned the female condom. There is some discussion of these in the thread on birth control in Chick Chat. They are expensive, comparatively, but reuseable with care and a vinegar soak.
Right after the modern ones came on the market, I had to try them out. The couple guys who helped me, liked them. Place vaginal jelly both in the vagina and in the condom. They have a tendency to allow leakage around the open end. They are quite large, so the man moves independently of the condom and both guys told me they felt they were very realistic.
I prefer the condom on the man but, then, it is rare that I reach orgasm with his thrusting - it takes a bit more. When I travel, I do have female condoms with me and have been known to give a friend a choice - his regular condoms or my female condoms. That has been a while because the only men I see now are in the safe category.
Try different kinds of condoms.
Personally, I like the Trojan Magnums. They're a little more roomy and don't constrict as much as regular condoms.
You might also try any that are listed as "Ultrasensitive" or "Ultrathin".
There are also female condoms... see:
Condomania
Although, the reviews I've heard say it's like masturbating with a sandwich baggie...lol. It might be worth trying out though.
ok.You say the condoms you have been using dont give you much sensation when your inside her.Dont worry,had the exact same problem my very first time.First, are you a heavy masturbator?If so then that might have something to do with it because your senses may be numb down there from the self pleasuring.If thats not the deal then it is probably a condom issue.Use ultra-thins(if you havent already) and see if that helps.Good Luck dude!!!