I'm a little concerned about something about was hoping someone could give me some clarification. I have been with my partner for just a short time now and recently there has been a huge increase in how wet she is during sex. At first it hurt her a little but lately she's been more relaxed and is now worried, as am I, about how wet things are. She's dripping and there is a pool left on the bed. The strange part is, this has happened to me in the past with another partner. She went to a doctor who tested her for a range of STD's and STI's, none of which she was positive for. He said it could be related to parts of her being stimulated that she wasn't used to. She made a comment about my size having something to do with it but I assume that was just to keep me from worrying that something was wrong. Neither of them had ever had this happen before and I seem to be the only common link. My current partner says she feels fine and seems to be enjoying things more each time, but she's a little concerned and embarassed and I was hoping to have some kind of explanation. I'm not sure what I'm doing that's causing this. It seems to happen when we're in positions that allow for deep penetration, just as it did with my former partner. Anyone with an explanation would be greatly appreciated.
Fri, 03/23/2007 - 04:39
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concerned about volume
I am confused; her wetness is hurting her? The amount of fluid is fine, it just means she is very stimulated, this is not a bad thing. And yes, we can leave a "puddle" on the bed too! And you both are concerned why?
The amount of fluid during sex has no correlation to a STD presence. Unusual odor, foul discharge, lesions, etc. are more the types of symptoms you would be seeing.
I have issues w/lots of fluid, it makes it difficult for my partner to "feel" during intercourse since there is so much lube and not enough friction. So, many times I take a warm bath before which I find helps decrease excessive amounts.
Maybe you really have turned on both partners...
She may simply be producing excess lubriation. This can vary with the menstrual cycle and can increase as we become more comfortable with our partners. It could also be liquid expelled from her Skene's Glands. See my sticky on female ejaculation on Pleasing Her.
Not many of us actually ejaculate but some do. Not nearly as many as some crazy sites suggest in demanding that all women should do that.
Now, if it smells like urine, that is different.