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Concern on touching her

I have a really good relationship with my girlfriend; we have really good communication and I feel this very strong connection with her, more than I've ever had for any person, and she seems to feel the same way. Because of that, our relationship has gotten slightly physical. For a while now we've experimented with touching.
Which leads to the concern. Now we haven't done anything beyond touching , but she occasionally has times when she gets really concerned about it. I can understand why she's worried about it, since her older sister became pregnant at an early age and she doesn't want that to happen to her. Now I've never been touched by her enough to release, and I wash my hands before I touch her.
After reading some stuff, it seems sperm can only survive outside the body for about 20 minutes to an hour. But I've never pleasured myself within that time before we've been touching each other, probably the closest would be around two hours beforehand. So, going from this info, we should be pretty safe, shouldn't we?
Now her and I have talked about this concern and we know the risks. But she knows I would be with her through anything. So pretty much I'm just asking to sort of get an estimate of what the chances might be or any other things that might help prevent that chance.
I've read a few other topics in this forum before I joined and the community here really seems to know what they're talking about, hence why I joined to ask this question and possibly throw a few more out there. Thanks in advance for any responses that are made.

If semen comes in contact with vaginal fluids you run a risk of pregnancy. If she is concerned about your relationship going further you use a condom and she uses a spermicide. End of story and all is well in the world!

This is as far as we'll probably be going for a while. Thanks for your imput.

when i was 14 i became pregnant and had to have an abortion, it didnt make sense to me why i was because me and my boyfriend had only touched before. it turns out it was because of him masterbating earlyer in the day and then touching me and that is the only way we could have conceived, it is very rare but it does happen, i think you are being very safe taking all the precortions you do, there is no full proof way to determine weather you have know way of concieveing whilst touching her but you have a very very low risk just make sure you keep washing your hands and you should be fine, and if you use anti-bacterial hand wash you will have even more reason not to worry. and just enjoy yourselves

just make a rule: you only touch her she only touches you and yes wash your hands if there are any signs of precum/sperm

Any time both of you have your pants off, have a condom on.

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